Is this normal?

[LeicsDom]

This guy sent me a naked body pic and wants to meet. But I am unsure as his dick looks either mutilated or diseased.

 

[KaraBulut]

I'm not a fan of referring to another person's body as "mutilated"; it's not exactly a self-esteem booster.

It's difficult to tell what is going on from a picture. Does it look like poor technique on a circumcision? Maybe. It's difficult to tell from a picture.

Bottom line: if you have chemistry with the guy, meet up with him. If you can't come up with enough interest in this guy in person, then move on to someone else.

 

[LeicsDom]

I'm not a fan of referring to another person's body as "mutilated"; it's not exactly a self-esteem booster.

It's difficult to tell what is going on from a picture. Does it look like poor technique on a circumcision? Maybe. It's difficult to tell from a picture.

Bottom line: if you have chemistry with the guy, meet up with him. If you can't come up with enough interest in this guy in person, then move on to someone else.

I don't mind a dodgy circumcision but the head looks like it has had chunks bitten out of it

 

[KaraBulut]

I don't mind a dodgy circumcision but the head looks like it has had chunks bitten out of it

It looks wonky to the point that I thought to myself, "Um, you don't have a better picture to send out?". But more than anything, it's a terrible quality picture and honestly, if the person can't send out a decent picture, I'm not optimistic about anything that would come after.

 

[LeicsDom]

It looks wonky to the point that I thought to myself, "Um, you don't have a better picture to send out?". But more than anything, it's a terrible quality picture and honestly, if the person can't send out a decent picture, I'm not optimistic about anything that would come after.

I have decided to swerve a meet

 

[unloadonme]

I have decided to swerve a meet

Probably just as well. He could be a really nice guy, but the picture is a bit disconcerting.

 

[unloadonme]

I'm not a fan of referring to another person's body as "mutilated"; it's not exactly a self-esteem booster.

Interesting point. I don't disagree, but it reminded me of Female Genital Mutilation (or FGM). This term appears to be widely accepted and is described on the NHS site as "a procedure where the female genitals are deliberately cut, injured or changed, but there's no medical reason for this to be done". The male equivalent, circumcision, is rarely if ever called MGM although it's just as much an act of mutilation.

Female genital mutilation (FGM)

Find out what female genital mutilation (FGM) is, why and where it's carried out, what the health risks are, and where to get help and advice.

www.nhs.uk

 

[KaraBulut]

Interesting point. I don't disagree, but it reminded me of Female Genital Mutilation (or FGM). This term appears to be widely accepted and is described on the NHS site as "a procedure where the female genitals are deliberately cut, injured or changed, but there's no medical reason for this to be done". The male equivalent, circumcision, is rarely if ever called MGM although it's just as much an act of mutilation.

Female genital mutilation (FGM)

Find out what female genital mutilation (FGM) is, why and where it's carried out, what the health risks are, and where to get help and advice.

www.nhs.uk

Off topic but just to clarify: The two procedures are nothing alike. In an infibulation, the entire clitoris is removed, not the prepuce of the clitoris. In some procedures, the vaginal opening is sutured. The procedure is done on pre-pubescent girls in non-sterile conditions, so infection and scarring are common. The scarring around the vaginal opening can lead to serious complications during childbirth. It's also the cause of another problem- rectovaginal fistula.

I don't like the term "female genital mutilation", either. It's just adding more humiliation to women who were already traumatized.

Terms like "cut" and "mutilated" have become mundane. In the end, they are terms that refer to someone's genitals. There's an epidemic of people with serious body image issues and we need to think about some of these terms that we're using that just contribute to the problem.