Is This Too Strange?

[looseliam]

For some, it may be. It's a matter of finding someone that is into the same things that you are.

 

[looseliam]

Some may not understand why that gets you hot.

That's just how it goes.

 

[Spiff]

It just depends on the company you are playing with. If it was a guy you intend on staying with for awhile, it might have been a good idea to fish out of him his turn-on's and turn-offs. If it was just a one-time hookup, then so what if he thinks you are a freak.

 

[TX-Beau]

I think, considering everything else you've posted about, it's unhealthy FOR YOU and you need to get professional help.

 

[makeurowndstny]

While I am not interested in getting spit on and such, I don't think it as weird. I have specific turn ons that some people may not find kosher But who cares!

 

[Seasoned]

I think, considering everything else you've posted about, it's unhealthy FOR YOU and you need to get professional help.

My thoughts regarding this have to do with you asking if it's ok. ANYTHING that leaves those involved alive CAN be ok. Are you questioning yourself about this? In theory it's ok. I'm concerned about you letting strangers choke you.

So, like the quote, I'd ask where this comes from. Is it just kink, or do you feel you need to be punished and ill treated because you are gay. How's your acceptance of being gay in day to day life?

If I were your best friend or a close relative, I'd like to know that this was just a part of your sexual repertoire and not the only way you can get off. Not every guy is going to be willing to spit and choke. I happen to find facials hot, but not everyone would.

Bottom (no pun intended) line, if you have to ask perhaps not so good for you.

 

[2untru]

It's definitely a rare request that I wouldn't expect unless with someone that seems to be in that type of scene.

I don't see anything wrong with it, that's your thing and there are plenty of other people that are into it.

 

[gayguygary]

Omg I am into something very similar. Not so much the strangling, but definitely the being spat on. I'm only 19 and to be honest some have thought it was pretty strange, but I don't care... I fucking love it!

 

[undisclosed1234]

To each their own. Weird to me but shit, I'm not fucking you.

Someone I was having sex with once got too involved with their dirty talk ('rape me, yeah, rape me with your black cock'; are you kidding me?) and I just left. I didn't make a fuss or anything, just pulled out, said "this isn't working for me, I'm gonna go".

Ignored the 20+ texts that followed that week.

 

[Namebirthdate]

Sex is all about communication. If both partners don't feel able to speak out about sex, something is wrong. I understand that it can be difficult to talk about but once you do, your relationship will be so much better for it.

As for sex goes, I can be a bit into more "hardcore" elements. I am pretty much 100% submissive when it comes to sex, definitely not outside of the bedroom. I like to be choked during foreplay. I also love having my head forced down on his cock. Sexual identity is an interesting psychology, very complex. I love playful force. However, I would never initiate that kind of play until I had a significant amount of trust with my partner. Besides that, you also need for them to enjoy it also.