It's difficult for me to stay turned on...

[Sunshine]

I don't usually like to talk about these kinds of things but right now..I could just use some advice or an adult, (lulz) I feel like I've just embarrassed myself to hell and back.

I was on a date with this really nice guy and in the car things got steamy but..nothing he could do turned me on and when I did get little hints of turn on they lasted literally a whole 5 seconds. Its difficult for me to keep an erection, my body tingles like I'm running low on sugar or something, and my mind wanders. I don't know whats going on.

This wouldn't be the first time this has happened either. I noticed it around the time I broke up with my last boyfriend. Before the break up everything was working right, after...its just.....dead. I don't know if I'm just bored..., maybe my health has gone to shit after I gained a couple pounds?, Is it all in my mind? I can't figure it out.

I'm 22 and already considering viagra. *facepalm*

help? =/

 

[USEDCAR]

Well do you masturbate?

 

[BiMike]

For some reason you have got yourself nervous when around guys in a sexual way, it probably all in the mind ! As above do you get off to hot porn , if so what sort gay or str8? Unlikely to be anything medical if you get off alright in that sort of situation.

 

[KaraBulut]

Three questions-

1. Do you have normal erections in the morning and during the night?
2. Are you able to stay hard when masturbating?
3. When is the last time that you had a physical and a lab workup?

 

[Benvolio]

Only one date? Perhaps that guy just didn't turn you on. Does porn work for you. I mean porn as an experiment, not as a substitute.

 

[Sunshine]

Well do you masturbate?

No, its boring.

For some reason you have got yourself nervous when around guys in a sexual way, it probably all in the mind ! As above do you get off to hot porn , if so what sort gay or str8? Unlikely to be anything medical if you get off alright in that sort of situation.

I don't watch porn regularly, its literally once in a blue moon and I kind of have to really work for it.

Three questions-

1. Do you have normal erections in the morning and during the night?
2. Are you able to stay hard when masturbating?
3. When is the last time that you had a physical and a lab workup?

1 Nope, I cant even remember the last timethats happened.
2 barely...like I said, I really have to work for it.
3. Maybe when I was about 16.




=\ I'm broken

 

[AlmondMilk]

Try getting a blood test done and ask to include testosterone.

 

[Benvolio]

I suggest that you do try Viagra, Cialis or levitra. I think it will wake up your libido, and it certainly will help you stay hard.

 

[KaraBulut]

1 Nope, I cant even remember the last timethats happened.
2 barely...like I said, I really have to work for it.
3. Maybe when I was about 16.

I had noticed in another thread that you were complaining about recent weight gain. It's true that excess body fat can increase estrogen production which can lower libido. However, sometimes the extra weight is a symptom of a hormonal problem.

You should pay a visit to your physician. A thyroid workup, testosterone level and metabolic panel will help eliminate common causes that can result in weight gain, low energy levels and low libido. You're too young to be seeing a loss of interest in sex and problems with erection- particularly sleep/morning erections.

 

[BINOWGAYLATER]

you def need to have it checked out "medically" -- before jumping to the conclusion that it's all in your head -- even tho you're not "old" you could have prostate problems which could be serious. --- and if your regular doc isn't concerned -- get your butt to a competent urologist right away --- this needs a proper diagnosis NOW -- don't go making up reasons why its happening - find out -- some of it may be able to be fixed -- wouldn't that be great?

 

[GamerBear]

I think I might be going through the same situation. But I was 270lbs at first but then dropped to 225lbs within amount of one to two years. I think for it was my mental health I was always depressed and didn't feel like anything turned me on. Even the simplest things didn't turn me on like making out with my husband.

If it's not the weight then it has to be something mentally. Cause for me my mental health was so shitty that nothing turned me on any more.