Its official, ANAL is not ...

[Telstra]

... for everyone. I tried a few times and i don't like it.

I don't know how people can stand the pain and poo like feeling.
Anyway congratulations to those who like anal.

 

[Jeimuzu]

You've gotta give yourself time to get used to it, and relax. Buy a vibe (they go in easier than normal dildos) and take it slowly.

 

[LatinoSTAR]

Im not all about it either...but i let my dude do it to me whenever he wants....its not everyday your dating someone so fine, so, i try to enjoy it!! lmao...

 

[jackry]

For me it's about pleasing the other guy. It's not my favorite thing to do but putting a smile on my lover is.

 

[ckyb2]

I prefer frottage instead of anal usually, but it can be really great and intimate after you get used to it. Try it a few more times to get used to having some one inside you and you might like it.

 

[CHUCK905]

LOL. ... Most people out there are just not gonna like it. It really is only a minority that do when you think about it.

Rain: You're basing that statement on, what? Was that a question on the last census that I missed. BTW, I'm not a big fan of receiving but do it to recipricate, I just wonder how you came to the blanket statement that "most people" don't like it.
C

 

[USEDCAR]

I did anal once it was fine i did had the shitting feeling but i just ignore it. it felt strange having something going back and fourth inside my asshole and someone getting pleasure from it. But i love fucking a guy in his asshole i don't think i could date a guy who's not into getting fucked

 

[gerrit]

To me, being on the receiving end is THE best thing... I cum without touching myself and enjoy the giver's look on his face knowing how much pleasure he is giving me..... sometimes it feels like I'm melting.....

To each his own I say...

 

[SamsDad]

Aside from a generalization or two, no one has said anything like, it is just as acceptable to not be into anal sex as it is to be into it. It's just one of those To Each His Own things.

Rog

 

[LoveIsNow]

I don't like anal at all, giving or receiving. I only do frot nowadays. I do think it's strange how gay men get really defensive about their anal sex when you suggest that there are other ways to do it.

 

[Telstra]

its more pleasurable for 2 bodies on top of each other with full body contacts without anal (no pain). Thats how we got a hard on and cummed anyway without anal.

 

[blumUO83]

Please please do not give up on anal. I used to have a very difficult time with anal and it was always uncomfortable and sometimes painful at times to be on the receiving end. But I started using a butt plug on a semi regular basis, and continued to bottom, and it is really pleasurable for me now. You have to just keep at it, and eventually the muscle will get more used to the idea of having a cock up there. I can't tell you how much I love being fucked now.

 

[Sunshine]

Rule #1: IF SEX IS A PAIN IN THE ASS YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG.

 

[sunoftheskye]

If it's that painful, I really don't think you're doing it correctly.

 

[looseliam]

Pound my ass.

A little pain or discomfort here and there isn't all that bad.

Oh, did I mention, pound my ass??

 

[KaraBulut]

Perhaps you should start with a training dick first?

No need for another thread about up-the-bum-sex for 2009.

It's like potato chips. One is never enough.

 

[JayHawk]

Actually butt sex can unite the world. We do it, str8s can do it, hell even lesbians can do it with a little mechanical knowledge and some mcgiver attitude.

Ride a pole,
Unite the world

 

[mj2006a]

Frottage, kissing, licking, sucking....way better than anal..but rimming can drive you so crazy as to ask the guy to fuck you mercilessly..... it is just amazing...I am sorry for the guys who have never been rimmed. Best thing in the whole wide world.

 

[tonyboy]

... for everyone. I tried a few times and i don't like it.

I don't know how people can stand the pain and poo like feeling.
Anyway congratulations to those who like anal.

Yeah, well I've read all the comments on your thread. And as one person said 'to each his own'.... I agree with that.

Anyone that views any sort of gay porn must come away with the idea that all sex between guys is anal. Not the case.

I mean there is often rimming (which is damned fine), there is finger play with a partnes anus, and there is also lot's of kissing, holding, sucking, and cuddleing.

If your idea of gay sex is just taken from porn then you'd figure that one guy must be a top and the other a bottom... all the time. Sure the positions can be reversed between the two guys.

Threre is a lot to be said for sex between two guys that doesn't always have to include being fucked with a dick. And yeah, sometimes it can be fine and fun.

I've allowed some of my past partners to be a top on me.... and we never used any sort of lube, could be why I never found it pleasurable.
But a few times I did.
One of the best was when this guy used his spit to lube his dick. And his big dick just slid in perfectly. I actually loved that particular time.

From talking to friends I know that it does take time to get used to a dick up your bum. I figure it's something that you'd do with someone that would be a long term mate.... not just for casual sex. That's just me though.

My best online buddy was generally a top.... but he's found that he loves being a bottom.
The deal though is that guy to guy sex can happen in many different ways.
Of course all this is just my way of thinking.

 

[just_mills]

One of the most sensational feelings I have ever experienced.. Every time, with you-know-who!
Find the right guy, take it easy, and then... get wild!

Ahem.