I try to think of myself as being a liberal thinker, but I know that I am old fashioned about some things, like with relationships. I am very possessive when it comes to my boyfriend Dave.
Yesterday, he came home and informed me that that one of the 19-year-old cashiers at the store where he works was hitting on him, indicating that she thought he was hot, and that she wanted him to take her out.
I know my guy, and I know he is 100% true blue loyal to me, as well as being totally gay. He laughed it off and told her that he's committed to a relationship (without letting it slip that he was gay), and that was that.
After almost 10 years together, (and knowing how committed we both are to our relationship), I should know that I have nothing to worry about . And I guess it's very flattering for him, as a 35-year-old gay man to find out that he's considered attractive to women. I know he's attractive to others, and that there will be people who try to make their move. In my heart, I know I shouldn't feel a twinge of jealousy, but I do...
I'm not going to say anything to him about it bothering me. I don't want him to think that I am a possessive, jealous, clinging bitch. I know I am making more of it in my head than there really is there. I'm going to try to just deal with my negative feelings, and move on because I have the most wonderful guy, and he feels the same about me....
Yesterday, he came home and informed me that that one of the 19-year-old cashiers at the store where he works was hitting on him, indicating that she thought he was hot, and that she wanted him to take her out.
I know my guy, and I know he is 100% true blue loyal to me, as well as being totally gay. He laughed it off and told her that he's committed to a relationship (without letting it slip that he was gay), and that was that.
After almost 10 years together, (and knowing how committed we both are to our relationship), I should know that I have nothing to worry about . And I guess it's very flattering for him, as a 35-year-old gay man to find out that he's considered attractive to women. I know he's attractive to others, and that there will be people who try to make their move. In my heart, I know I shouldn't feel a twinge of jealousy, but I do...
I'm not going to say anything to him about it bothering me. I don't want him to think that I am a possessive, jealous, clinging bitch. I know I am making more of it in my head than there really is there. I'm going to try to just deal with my negative feelings, and move on because I have the most wonderful guy, and he feels the same about me....