Just a crazy guy or what? Help needed.

[umseriously]

So, I don't really do the whole "hook up" thing often. I've never done anal before, just oral and I'm safe about that...I guess, as safe as you can be.

Awhile back, I met up with this guy and he blew me. I didn't reciprocate and I gave him a facial and that was that.

He then started constantly emailing me and texting me. And, as I said, I don't hook up often and I tried explaining that to him. That it was a one time thing and I was sorry if he somehow assumed that it was more. I tried to be as nice as you can in a situation like that. He still would email me or text me randomly so I blocked his email. That's when he started getting new emails and continuing on.

Now, it's been probably 4-5 months. He left me alone for awhile, but today he texted me telling me that I was an asshole. He then proceeded to say he gave me an STD and AIDS and that I was going to die.

Basically, what I'm scared of is...could this guy be just saying that to get under my skin? Or could he be telling the truth? I don't know if guys say something like that to someone who they don't even know, but isn't that kind of sick? Obviously, all I can do is get tested, right? But what if he was actually telling the truth? You can get stuff from just getting a blowjob, I know that.

I don't know, I'm just really worked up about it. What do you guys think?

 

[mbamike]

Obviously, all I can do is get tested, right?

What you said. Then take it from there.

 

[Corny]

He blew you and you came in his face? You are pretty safe. Get tested to ease your mind, and ignore that desperate idiot.

 

[FuryOfFirestorm]

You have no reason to worry, but I'd keep any pet rabbits as far from the kitchen as possible, just in case.

 

[umseriously]

You have no reason to worry, but I'd keep any pet rabbits as far from the kitchen as possible, just in case.

HAHA. Probably a good idea.

Thanks for the replies. The free clinic near me does testing on Tuesdays so I'll definitely be out there bright and early. And then even more waiting for the results. :-/

 

[KaraBulut]

For your peace of mind, get an STD test, change your phone number and consider changing your email address.

Not necessarily in that order.

And hopefully this guy doesn't have your home address.

 

[AlmondMilk]

I agree that he's just being desperate. I've met a couple people who would attempt to guilt me into hooking up again. It's very pathetic, but for some reason they just won't listen when you tell them it was just a one-time thing. After you get that STD test, forget about this guy. He's the ass for bothering you when you were upfront with him.

 

[umseriously]

Update: Just got my test results back today and everything came back negative. So that's a relief. I changed my email and blocked the guy's number so hopefully I'll never hear from him again.

Thanks to everyone that replied

 

[Atzesp]

I agree that he's just being desperate. I've met a couple people who would attempt to guilt me into hooking up again. It's very pathetic, but for some reason they just won't listen when you tell them it was just a one-time thing.

Same here. I've dealt with guys who threatened me, others who said they would tell everybody I was gay (as if nobody knew and I cared about that), and things like that. I once even managed to find a guy who told me "I love you" on the very first meet/fuck!!!!!

So, you're already tested and blocked the guy. Don't worry about it anymore - it's not worthy.

 

[jknightuk]

Wow... not a nice guy!

Sorry to hear you've been through such an ordeal! First thing I want to make clear is don't panic about it... he's trying to scare you.

If it makes you feel better, have a test done... you can't go wrong with that. At the end of the day, if the test comes back negative, then you can have the last laugh at this guy! I do seriously feel he is having you on though.

If he keeps harassing you, go to the Police. Print out your emails if possible (from him) as proof. That way, you can't be accused of being untruthful.

Good luck with this, and I really hope you nail this guy.