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Just came out to my Mom

Congrats Milboy... awesome job mate!!!

You have taken some amazing steps in such a short time... I hope you feel as proud as hell mate... you deserve too!!
 
Congratulations, kudos, and accolades, my friend! Coming out be it as gay or bisexual is subjective to the individual and/or personal circumstance. I neither think less of a person for remaining in the closet indefinitely, nor do I think the world of someone coming out immediately ... it's time when it's time, and not a second sooner.
 
syoBsUtsuJ said:
Congratulations, kudos, and accolades, my friend! Coming out be it as gay or bisexual is subjective to the individual and/or personal circumstance. I neither think less of a person for remaining in the closet indefinitely, nor do I think the world of someone coming out immediately ... it's time when it's time, and not a second sooner.
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Thank you, and I couldn't agree more.


Thanks to everyone who has supported me, I really appreciate it.
 
I know I am late in this post, but I just want to say that I don't have the courage to do the same thing that you did. I would be scared shitless if I ever have to tell my mom anytime soon. I am really excited and happy to hear about your story. Maybe one day all these stories will encourage me to do the same.
 
Lube said:
I wish closeted guys would read those lines over and over and over again.

Over and over and over again.

Paste them on the wall.

Sure, it's not everybody's experience, but it's quite common these days.
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SL1986 said:
I know I am late in this post, but I just want to say that I don't have the courage to do the same thing that you did. I would be scared shitless if I ever have to tell my mom anytime soon. I am really excited and happy to hear about your story. Maybe one day all these stories will encourage me to do the same.
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Please read over my posts and Lube's responses.

I'm telling you, Moms know.

Now I know that not everyone's Mom is as cool as mine, but I also know that I'm a very straight acting guy.
And by straight acting, I mean I look at girls, talk about girls, and act like I'm a staight guy interested in nothing but girls.

How my Mom knew, I don't know, but she did. Do what's right for you, but just remember that you only have one life. You can live it for you, or you can live it for others. I finally chose to take control and live for me, and I'm glad I did.
 
Milboy, I know what you mean, but sometimes (don't want to sound negative) I think mothers purposely denies the truth because some part of them don't want it to be true. I don't think it's most mother's dream for her son to be gay. I am just so afraid to hurt her and for me to lose her love. For the last couple of years, she has been stressing me to get married, and I don't want to disappointed her and tell her that I can't give her a grandchild from me. I think my culture/society/ethnic or whatever have also made it harder for me to do this. :( How old are you anyway? I am 22 by the way.
 
But she's "loving" a fiction. It's not you. It's someone else.

Growing up means standing up for yourself and saying, "Tough shit. This is who I am. Take it or leave it."

People respect (self-)confidence. Do it when you're secure in your sexuality.
 
gaydude65 said:
Um...how's that again? :confused:
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Congratulations, you've managed to take some quotes and use them out of context. How very clever!

I would waste the next 30 seconds of my life explaining myself to you, but I hardly see how that's necessary. I can only assume you're just trolling for an argument anyway, especially considering you did it in a completely different thread than where you got the quotes from.

So thanks so much, and have a great day! :wave:


EDIT: Oh, I see who you are now, you're the same guy who tried to call me out in my other thread because you didn't like my profile. Hey, looks like I HAVE some info in my profile right? Not much in yours is there? Funny how you still feel the need to critique mine though.

Tell ya what, if you keep bothering me and trying to disrupt all my threads, I'll just report you to the moderators and have them deal with you. I'm not hear to justify myself to you, and this forum isn't supposed to be a headache. So I'll ask you nicely to please just leave me alone. Thank you
 
Lube said:
But she's "loving" a fiction. It's not you. It's someone else.

Growing up means standing up for yourself and saying, "Tough shit. This is who I am. Take it or leave it."

People respect (self-)confidence. Do it when you're secure in your sexuality.
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Exactly. When YOU are ready. You'll know when the time is right for you.
 
stacyphierce said:
Milboy I'm happy things went well with the Facebook message thing. I hope things continue to go smoothly as you come out, on your terms, at your own pace.
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Thanks so much!

It may not have been the most typical method, but it worked. I'm still working everything out, but it's starting to come together I think.

Thanks to y'all
 
So we've sent some more messages, and she is just as cool as I could have ever wanted.

I was hoping this would make us a little closer (even though we were pretty close), and it seems to have paid off. I feel like I can tell her anything now, which is awesome.

I also told her that I don't want others to know (again), and she said it's not going to get out. She knows how I am and she knows that if she betrayed my trust I'd shut her out completely, so I'm not worried about it. And I guess nobody else in the family thinks that I'm gay, so we're doing pretty well there.

I'm really happy about the way this has turned out, I can't even say in words.

And despite the pestering ignorance of one particularly menacing 'member' here, you have all been very great to me. I thank you all for your support, and I hope that maybe someone else reads this and it gives him some encouragement to do what he's been wanting to do too.

Thanks again guys (and gals!!)
 
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