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hotlatinchulo348

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Okay so basically I got wasted a couple nights ago and drunk texted this one guy that I have drunk texted before. I knew he was gay and because I was drunk and horny I started to flirt with him. Anyway, one thing led to another and he told me he liked me. I feel bad because I am really just curious about guys right now and would like to experiment. I am in college. Anyway, now he is texting me all the time and I feel bad but I don't want a relationship or anything. I wouldn't even go as far as saying that I am bi. I just want to see what it would be like to be with a guy once. I don't know what to do. Please help!!!:confused:
 
Contact him - and not via text - and tell him the truth. That you're very sure you're not gay, and you're not even sure that you're bisexual. However, you'd like to try sex with a guy once, to see what it's like. Tell him your concerns - that you don't want him to think it'll be anything more than that, that you feel you'll be "leading him on". Once he knows the score, it'll be up to him to make the decision. And I can next-to-guarantee his decision will be to jump into bed with you, so Clean Livin' Lex suggests stocking up on condoms and lube now, and start practicing.

Lex
 
Wow. Thanks guys. I didn't really think this advice would help but I feel a lot better. I think I just freaked out because I'm starting this whole new college life with all new friends and I didn't want to ruin anything. So, if my friend does want to do this with me, how should I approach the situation?
 
hotlatinchulo348 said:
Wow. Thanks guys. I didn't really think this advice would help but I feel a lot better. I think I just freaked out because I'm starting this whole new college life with all new friends and I didn't want to ruin anything. So, if my friend does want to do this with me, how should I approach the situation?
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The issue will probably not be that your friend does not want to help you with your experimentation with guys. The issue will probably be that your gay friend cannot separate his emotions from sex.

If you're not comfortable with your friend having a crush on you, then you're better off not getting involved. Somebody will end up getting hurt.

If you're going to college, there will not be any shortage of guys who will be willing to satsify your curiosity. In fact, college is all about curiosity and experimentation.
 
KaraBulut said:
In fact, college is all about curiosity and experimentation.
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Indeed. It is a time to find out what you are into.

Best thing to do: If you want to experiment only, find someone you are able to talk to and don't rush into anything. You're more likely to do something stupid when you're horny, so find someone and tell them you just want to experiment, tell them how far you're willing to go, and get it so you're comfortable with it.
 
Okay. New update. So we both got back from Spring Break and started talking on Monday in his room when he asks if he can kiss me. Immediately I felt like lightening tore through my body but I tried to play it cool. He looked kinda embarrassed but I wanted him to pursue me. Finally after an awkward pause he got up and leaned towards me. I kinda backed away but then gave in. It was so strange and different but really exciting. We made out on his bed for a while and then I felt his huge hard on in his pants. I couldn't help myself and I ended up totally going down on him. This wasn't any small feat either. This guy was BIG. Anyway I got him off and we both went to class. Later that night we ended up going all the way. It was quite an experience.

Anyway, I was really afraid of him becoming emotionally attached but I think that I ended up becoming attached. What do I do?:help:
 
hotlatinchulo348 said:
From the 1-April post: Anyway, I was really afraid of him becoming emotionally attached but I think that I ended up becoming attached. What do I do?
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Let's recap:
  1. You are curious
  2. You met a guy
  3. Guy likes you
  4. You like guy
  5. You had fun with guy

Where's the problem here?


hotlatinchulo348 said:
From the 20-March post: I am really just curious about guys right now and would like to experiment.
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Well, then go experiment!
 
You...go with the flow (so to speak) and take it one day at a time. Have fun, and don't try to rush things too much.
 
Wow. He dropped a bombshell on me the other day. He told me that he has a boyfriend now so we just have to be friends. I couldn't figure out why I felt so upset. At first I thought it was because he had been leading me on for a couple days. He called me last night at 3 in the morning asking me meet him half way because he was walking back from a party and he was drunk. I met him and we just started walking back to our dorms until he layed down on the grass and just started talking about the stars. I layed next to him for awhile and we talked before making our way back. Just when I was about to go to sleep he asks me if I want to talk for a while. I agreed and we were just talking in his room. Somehow that led to some playful fighting that led to us both being on his bed under the covers. Well, one thing led to another and lets just say I didn't get back to my room until sunrise. So tonight I saw this guy that I saw him hanging out with over the weekend and I instantly new it was his boyfriend. I really can't figure out what it is I am feeling or why but I'm pissed off and really hurt.
 
And you sure sound gay to me. Welcome to the club. :-)
 
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