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I will definitely consider myself to be a tough guy. I am trained in mixed martial arts and boxing, but even though I still will not go up to a random guy who I find attractive and hit on him and it's not due to fear of getting beat up. I have a friend (he is very masculine) who is not intimidated at all. If he thinks a guy is hott (even if they are straight) he will pursue them and he does it in the manner that a male would pursue a female (kind of aggressive). I must admit he is a tough guy as well, so the probability of someone kicking his ass is highly unlikely, he doesn't look intimidating at all though. I have known this guy for six years and I have never seen anyone get aggressive with him, most guys politely tell him that they are straight or laugh it off, but no one has ever gotten rude or even angry. One thing about him though is if he does happen to hook up with a guy who is closeted he will not tell (even his closest friends), but if the guy is gay he will blab to the the whole world, so I really don't know if any of the straight guys he's hit on in front of me ended up in his bed later on. My question is do any of you do the same thing? Do you have the balls to approach any guy you find attractive? Or do you need the green light that they are gay?
 
I usually look for some confirming eye contact first, but I don't have a body as good as yours! If you see someone you like, you may as well let them know and see what happens. Like you said, no one's going to beat you up.
 
moschj said:
I usually look for some confirming eye contact first, but I don't have a body as good as yours! If you see someone you like, you may as well let them know and see what happens. Like you said, no one's going to beat you up.
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I am muscular, but that's not me in my avatar and gallery, I found those pics a while back when I first started lifting and that was my inspiration to stick with it lol. Sometimes when he does it I feel a little bit awkward because I don't know how the guy is going to respond. I have come to realize though, some guys may have an attraction to you and won't pay you any attention because I do it all the time. There have been plenty of guys that I have really been in to, but never gave them any clues that I was.
 
You friend has the "bait trap" philosophy of tricking. He just throws out as many lines as possible with as much bait as possible, hoping that someone will bite.

And he has a very high tolerance for rejection. While it looks like he's putting himself out there and he's getting lucky all the time, the majority of the time he will get turned down.

It's also a bit sad.
 
^ Several decades ago, a straight guy I know used to pick up girls with the line "Do you want to fuck?" He got his face slapped a lot, but he also got a lot of fucking. His batting average might not be extremely high, but he's getting on base a lot. I guess it'll depend on which part of that you want to look at...

Do (did) I hit on anyone I find attractive? No, but that's never been my MO. I'm attracted far more to personality than to looks, so I'd have to get to know somebody first before I'd suggest getting physical with them. But I'm a bit confused about the part involving straight/closeted/gay guys.

Or perhaps not. Is there a workout partner you've got in mind? :)

Lex
 
G-Lexington said:
But I'm a bit confused about the part involving straight/closeted/gay guys.

Or perhaps not. Is there a workout partner you've got in mind? :)

Lex
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Lex just say one of these guys that he hits on happens to be bi or closeted and wants to frolic around in his bed without anyone finding out, my friend will respect their privacy and will not tell anyone including his closest friends, but whenever I ask him about a specific guy and he starts stuttering and changes the subject I know something went down. I actually have a nice update about that workout partner, I will p.m you that info later lol.
 
OrionFyre said:
It all falls apart when I find the person attractive and think "oo i might like to go out on a date with him." In which case I turn into an introverted little freak who stammers and gets all shy and constantly finds an excuse to have to get up and leave. Which in itself turns into a joke with my friends. Though one of my good friends who doesn't hang out with us much will call me out right on the floor in front of the person :bartshock "JOHN! Why you so quiet? you never get this quiet unless you're interested in someone!" :lol:
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That's me 100%, I can be such a coward](*,)
 
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