Just wondering, dildo friction

[coyotewileye]

Okay, so a few weeks ago I've bought my first Dildo I've played with it a couple of times now and absolutely love it. I'm wondering about something, though. When watching porn that has Dildo play, the person that is fucked with the Dildo often seem to be able to make long strokes effortlessly. It appears to slide in and out easily which makes for some deep Dildo fucking.

However, while I can quite easily take up my own Dildo all the way (slides in easy), further strokes seem to be more difficult. Almost like it's being resisted by some friction or vacuum effect. It feels like the tissues moves along with the Dildo instead of the Dildo moving past the tissue. It's like rubbing your thumb on your arm: the skin will move, but the thumb more or less clings to the same spot.

Again, I love playing with my Dildo they way things are now, but I'd like to try and do some longer, steady strokes as well. It just doesn't really seem to work, although taking out the Dildo completely and putting it back in (man, what a great feeling... ) helps a bit.

I feel like I use plenty of lube, so any other suggestions to improve things would be welcome. Thanks!

 

[versa39]

two words "elbowgrease" best but play brand around

 

[PhoenixRising]

But silicone lubes are not compatible with most sex toys, as they're silicone based as well.

 

[coyotewileye]

Okay, so changing lube might help. I'll give that a try. I'm almost out of my current lube, so I'll see sometimes soon if it does the trick. Thanks for answering.

 

[coyotewileye]

Just a quick follow-up to let you know that changing lube did indeed do the trick. On advice of a friend of mine I switched to Swiss Navy. Worked like a charm.

Thanks again for the suggestion.

 

[thermodynamics]

Different lube helps. You definitely want viscous friction when it comes to your hole. Definitely not Coulomb (dry) friction!

 

[KaraBulut]

Another thing you can do is use a condom with lube over your toys. It reduces the friction and makes them easier to clean afterward.

 

[Atomw7]

I still like KY. I haven't found anything with the same slickness but it is water based.

I have!