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Lack of desire after cumming

Grey_Sky

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I've been in a relationship for almost 5 months now and it happends to me everytime. While sometimes he is ready to start over again just about 10 minutes after his first orgasm, I tend to completely loose interest in sex after cumming. And it can take hours till I regain it.

I've always been like this, it's not just wth this guy, and I'm not saying I can't keep it hard and cum again if I try, because we've done it too. The problem is that the desire completely vanishes for a whole while, and it bothers me...

Does anyone else feel the same? And if so, have you found a way to recover your "mojo" faster?! ;)
 
Well thats a common issue. Some guys just have higher sex drives than others, its no issue just a drive thing, your ready to cuddle and maybe take a nap after.. and i can be the same way.. but i could go again 20 mins later.. but its just libido. and as far as recovering your mojo have sex less or jerk off less and you sould have a higher drive
 
It depends. Generally, I'll lose interest for at least an hour afterwards. Sometimes, I'll be horny enough to start again, but that's rare.

So what do you do? Just don't cum until you're set to finish for the night. Edge a couple of times, get your boyfriend off as often as he wants to, and then finish yourself off with a killer climax. :)

Lex
 
then mess around until he cums, have him wait 10 minutes and then mess around again till you both cum.
 
Same here, but I'm pretty messed up.
With my ex boyfriend who i really did love, whenever we had sex this really hot girl I was crushing on would pop in my head when ever I climaxed, and only when I climaxed. As many times as I tried to think of him (after all i was DOING him) It would automatically pop in my head. And right after orgasm I would feel revolted being near him. It really fucking sucked. But then 10 minutes later I would be the same I was before, sometimes I'd want to do it again too.
 
G-Lexington said:
It depends. Generally, I'll lose interest for at least an hour afterwards. Sometimes, I'll be horny enough to start again, but that's rare.

So what do you do? Just don't cum until you're set to finish for the night. Edge a couple of times, get your boyfriend off as often as he wants to, and then finish yourself off with a killer climax. :)

Lex
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I do that, make him cum a couple of times, then I cum.
Then sleep.
 
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