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Large guy into fit or skinny guys

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dlite652

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Hey there boys, this my first post on these boards. I am pretty new to the whole gay community in that I just came out to all my friends after having feelings like this since 7th grade (i'm a junior in college). Now that I'm out I'm ready to start meeting guys, tho only thing is the guys I'm into are really different than myself in that I am not the most in shape guy to say the least (i dress really well and am good looking for my size) and the guys im into are usually pretty fit or thin. Do guys like me get guys like that? How? I'm a very intelligent, creative guy, how do i get guys to see that to be attracted to that in me. Thanks.
 
Workout. You've been blessed with a goodlooking face so you say, so if you workout, not only will you be living a healthier lifestyle but you'll also attract those guys you're interested in. Kind of sounds shallow, but at the same time it's what I would dub normal.
 
some guys like being bigger...like myself. i'm comfortable and healthy at the same time...but check out this kevin smith video.

[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zZGcYvjDyIY[/ame]

there are a lot of fit or skinny guys who are into bigger guys. just be yourself.
 
Would you go with a heavy guy?

If not, then eat less and move more.

It is odd how sometimes the overweight guys want all the skinny twinks but then freely admit they wouldn't date their physical equal.

And if you want to know how to snag any guy....personality.
 
Some guys are into heavier guys some aren't, but you can always work out and eat better if you want to lose some weight.
 
There's a whole class of guys called "chasers" (or "chub chasers") who are into guys like you. So, relax. You don't have to look like an Olympic athlete to attract guys.

There's nothing wrong with trying to be a little healthier (wean yourself off junk food, exercise just a little), but no need to overdo it.

Everybody's different.
 
I'm a big guy myself. And as the guy above me wrote, there is an entire community known as chubs and chasers.

I'm actually on a dating site that specializes in this type of community (www.biggercity.com). Check it out.
 
You know, I'm in my late thirties and I still have no idea what Americans mean when they are talking about being "a junior in college." Is that first-year, second-year? And does it apply to universities or specifically colleges?

LOL.

And, Hi, & welcome to JUB.

I know big guys who have dated skinny guys. There is someone for everyone. I've got my guy but for me weight was not the deciding factor. I don't think it is an issue if you only prefer skinny guys, but you have no room to complain if the skinny guy has the same preference you do.
 
Freshmen: 1st year
Sophomore: 2nd year
Junior: 3rd year
Senior: 4th year

Bottom: oh, wait, wrong thread... ;)
 
youngnihilist said:
Sure, it's possible, but you greatly increase your chances by being fit.
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It depends who you are trying to entice. There are "chasers" and if you drop a whole bunch of weight, I would hope they would still accept you for you, but a guy who just lost 75 lbs is not the most obvious candidate for turning him on any more.
 
I'm a skinny guy, and I think certain bears are cute sometimes.

Post a pic and i'll let you know if i'd bang you. Honest. haha
 
Thanks for all the responses. I actually am working out and trying to eat healthier, and its not that I couldnt be with a bigger guy or find him attractive because i have found some attractive, i guess its more preference, but i suppose most men want a guy who is in shape. I guess I was more hoping that in the end it comes down to personality as I havent been in the gay community actively long, but have watched tons of beautiful women end up in love with guys i wouldnt necessarily find attractive and was wondering if that is the same in the gay world. Perhaps I sound naive so I apologize for that, but I just wanna put what i'm thinking out there.
 
^^Though there are many exceptions, men in general are more stimulated by the visual than women.

Thus men tend to place a greater emphasis on looks in their partners than women do,
 
dlite652 said:
Thanks for all the responses. I actually am working out and trying to eat healthier, and its not that I couldnt be with a bigger guy or find him attractive because i have found some attractive, i guess its more preference, but i suppose most men want a guy who is in shape. I guess I was more hoping that in the end it comes down to personality as I havent been in the gay community actively long, but have watched tons of beautiful women end up in love with guys i wouldnt necessarily find attractive and was wondering if that is the same in the gay world. Perhaps I sound naive so I apologize for that, but I just wanna put what i'm thinking out there.
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You should definitely look into BiggerCity they have a large group of skinny guys who LOVE bigger guys. In my experience I am happy with how I look and my weight, I get too many guys who put too much emphasis on being skinny that me losing like 100lbs is just not my thing.

I think I would be more depressed if I lost 100lbs to try to impress a group of guys who are probably way too shallow as it is. I've met a good amount of skinny guys who like me for me, but then others who are totally assholes who think that I need to lose 200 pounds to impress them.
 
josher said:
^^Though there are many exceptions, men in general are more stimulated by the visual than women.

Thus men tend to place a greater emphasis on looks in their partners than women do,
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Men want to make themselves look as attractive as possible simply in order to get laid.

Women want to make themselves look as attractive as possible in order to cause jealousy and competition with other women, as well as to attract a mate.

/generalization.
 
Dont worry about it!! Im mean if your willing to hit the gym and eat healthier great wonderful but do it for your health not for getting a man!! Sometimes things come to you when you stop trying, so go out there with zero expectations and be your intelligent creative self and people will notice that! I know its sounds so after school special but its true! Where i live ive seen many an "odd" couple but after talking to them, or having had previously, i realized the less typically attractive guys can be pretty hot once you get to know them!
 
It's really sad to say out loud but american homosexual men are the most blatantly superficial group of people on the entire planet. I'll admit it, I'm incredibly shallow. Bigger guys in the gay community are like the bigger people in the rest of american society. Ignored, forgotten and exiled to live together in the south.

When it comes down to it man, if you want to land a catch... you've got to be a catch yourself. Or else have something extraordinary going for you. The absolute greatest sense of humor, pockets so deep that you don't know how coupons work, a personality fit for a talk show, etc.
 
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