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Well if you are cute and have a great personality then you will find a guy to be with soon enough...
You said this guy was your best friend.... tell you the truth man I think a best friend is harder to find than anything else. Cute guys can always hook up and find a willing partner for dating. But a best friend is a treasure in this life.

You've got to decide if you want to loose this guy as a friend by getting with him sexually or want to keep the sex out of it and keep him as your best buddy.
 
Me and him are best friends
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why he does not like me?
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You seem to have a very immature view of the world as evidenced by the 'me and him' versus 'He and I'. It is not about the grammatical correctness but where you put yourself in the relationship with others as in 'ME FIRST'.

He may be avoiding a sexual relationship because you are best friends and he knows this might destroy itas tony notes.

He may truly love you as a friend but not be in love with you as a sexual mate.

Don't be a child. He hasn't broken your heart or anything. Enjoy him for what he is and find yourself another boyfriend for love and sex.
 
I don't know why but most males find it hard or impossible to sexualize a relationship that starts off as just friends or sisters. Not to say it never ever happens, but it's not how things usually go.

Yes and also he may just not like you in that way. Being cute and nice gives you more options, but some guys like cute and nice as friends but want bad-boy and not-nice as a sexual turn on.

Unless you think he might punch you out, try stealing a kiss when you say goodnight or try holding his hand. Sometimes making a physical move calls the other guy's bluff and he runs or reponds. Probably runs in this case. Most guys interested in someone take some initiative themselves. But you never know.

Either way, it's a complete waste of time just staying frustrated. As that ol' "guru", Marianne Williamson, used to say, "If it doesn't stop at your station, it's not your train."
 
Remember there is great value in good guy friends you dont have sex with.
 
A lot of guys are attracted to guys who don't show interest in them. It's like the thrill of the chase. This sounds dumb I know, but you should pretend as if you are not interested in him at all and watch him fall right into your trap. It works like a charm...;)
 
I guess all is not lost - although you may not have him as a lover, you have him as a friend. It may heartbreaking and hurtful, but that friendship may just last a lot longer!
 
Hard to learn but not EVERYBODY in this world wants ANYBODY.

You could be great but if you're not someones type, stressing about it is really a waste of time and energy you could spend on someone who appreciates it. :D

Hope all is well.
 
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