loosing virginity

[inception138]

So im 18 and a virgin. I was wondering whether i should meet up with this guy (30) from the internet and have sex with him. Im really horny and would like to try sex. I have had webcam sex with him once and thats about it.

So what do you guys think i should do?

 

[Mnestor]

Ditto to what ACE000 said

 

[CGHJ]

Agreed, it's easy to be horny and desperate, lord knows most of us were at one time, but you're only gonna lose it once, make it count. Were not saying wait for THE ONE or anything uptight like that, just make sure it's someone you actually think is cool and will take the time to care about YOU losing your virginity, and won't just roll you over and fuck you roughly and leave your ass sore afterwards. It's worth waiting a minute, and in this day and age you won't really have to wait THAT long.

And he'll, maybe this guy is totally that guy. Just get to know him first and see what he's all about. Not saying date him or nothing...but don't fuck him unless you can honestly say to us, I know this guy and he's a cool person I'm sure will treat me like a person who's losing his virginity and not like a cheap fuck.

 

[crowboy]

Ditto as to what others have said.

My first time was with a guy who was patient and did not pressure me. As such it was a good moment I will always remember. Many guys who I've talked to about their first times did not have such an experience and they now regret it, or do not talk about it at all as it was not a pleasant experience.

Take your time and give it up when you are ready, and to a person who cares about how you feel. You are not just a quick fuck. Be safe and be well mate.

 

[mbamike]

It really depends on what you really want to do. Life is about making hard decisions Choosing to have sex or not is one of life's decisions.

You have had "webcam sex" with him. I take it that means you two have mutually masturbated while watching one another via a webcam. Did you enjoy that? Were you comfortable doing that?

Now, imaging being naked in bed with this guy. Will you feel comfortable having him touching your naked body? Will you feel comfortable touching his naked body? Are you ready to suck his cock? Who will be the bottom and who will be the top?

If you top, do you feel comfortable enough with him to maintain an erection?

If you bottom, have you prepared your ass to receive his cock? Have you acclimated your ass to receive his cock by playing with dildos and wearing a buttplug? Do you know if you will need to douche or not?

Does this guy know that you are a virgin. Is he OK with that? Some guys don't want to fuck a virgin. I know this from personal experience.

I had my first gay sex about two years ago. I read and learned all I could about gay sex. I corresponded with several guys on this site asking lots of questions. Knowledge is king which I found to be very true.

Then I prepared my ass by using dildos and wearing a buttplug around the house until I could wear it for about two hours without discomfort. There are lots of stories about guys who's first time was terrible; they felt like they had to crap the entire time they were being fucked. That is because they did not proper prepare for it. Needless to say, my first gay sex was wonderful!

Having sex is more than getting naked and sticking your cock in a guy's ass or vice versa. You need to prepare for it mentally, emotionally and physically if you want to enjoy it.

Now, ask yourself, are you prepared to have sex?

Good luck! I hope your first time is as great as mine was!

 

[wooffy]

So im 18 and a virgin. I was wondering whether i should meet up with this guy (30) from the internet and have sex with him. Im really horny and would like to try sex. I have had webcam sex with him once and thats about it.

So what do you guys think i should do?

Meet him first, somewhere public. See how you get along, if you feel comfortable with him, are attracted to him, and if your "gut" tells you that he can be trusted.

Discuss safer-sex, and make sure he understands you are a virgin and is prepared to work with you to make this fun. Be very clear as to what you are, and are not, willing to do your first time. For practical reasons I would recommend skipping on anal sex for a while, get comfortable with less overwhelming stuff first.

This is your first time, so make sure you at least like the guy, will be safe, and he will make it a good experience.

You're young and horny - make sure your brain makes the decision! If anything makes you uncomfortable, walk away. There are plenty more guys to hook up with.

 

[iwantbig]

yeah , first priority is about safe , if you allready know what this man looks like and your familiar with what he wants to do with you and hes aware that there is a cyber trail linking him to you youve probably got most of the bases covered , just let me check , you said webcam sex, was it two way ? , having said that , my first time was with a man that i met in the personals (just before internet time) i left my phone number in his voice mail box , he rang me and after a brief conversation about how we could hook up he said " you could just come to my place ". now i'll resist the temptation to retell the rest of that but i had the best first time ever and i hope yours goes aswell, you didnt say what youre into but if you want cock then i've got one thing to say , get that cock up you !