lowering your libido?

[looseliam]

I'm sure there are pharmaceuticals that can achieve this result.

The larger issue is that your sexual compulsion is interfering with your regular activities and can be construed as an addiction.

I'd look more towards counselling to aid you in controlling your free-time.

 

[KaraBulut]

Instead of using sex for an evasion from studying, why not just plan some funtime breaks or just give it a go before cracking the books?

Summers for teenagers and guys in their 20s are full of idle time and lots of beating of the meat. Your choices are keeping busy or just giving into temptation, unfortunately. However, you do need to study so just find a compromises between time for your brain and time for your dick.

 

[Seasoned]

The issue could be the "alone" time, or procrastination/avoidance, or, as mentioned above, compulsion/addiction issues. You may need the help of a therapist to help sort it out. You might try working on establishing a set study time and have some study partners and study in places where you are not isolated.

The issue is not libido as much as it is control and/or redirection. If you can get to class or other appointed activities you ought to be able to redirect your thoughts when it comes to getting school work done.

 

[KaraBulut]

I do have the self control to keep myself from having "alone time" but its just annoying dealing with random boners and constantly thinking about it. and it seems to me that the best way to deal with this is by lowering one's libido (and google has not been of much help)

There's only three things that are known to be effective in lowering libido in younger guys:
1. Female hormones: Which you probably don't want.
2. Stress: Which can also increase libido in some guys
3. Age: Which is inevitable

The issue, though, isn't your libido. It just seems that having time on one's hands leads to having other things on one's hands.

 

[sovscope]

I've got a similar problem; I get into multi-day edging and spend a lot of my time alone spanking it. Thank god I had roommates

 

[thisisinteresting]

Perhaps you need to separate masturbation into edging sessions where you really enjoy yourself/have the time to do so, and sometimes you need to accept that you just need to have a quickie so you can focus.

If your libido is distracting you from studies, then the point of masturbating would not be to have the best orgasm but just TO orgasm to get your mind off of it.

 

[fed1983]

Try to set up a group study. That way you'll have no other option than studying with your friends.

And if you do avoid studying, group sex is better than jacking off