lube suggestions

[jdoe4822]

my new boyfriend is somewhat inexperienced with bottoming and also is recovering from an anal fissure as a result of a drunken none lubed esacapade pre relationship (he saw his physician and got an appointment/referral to a specialist next week to get that checked out). any suggestions on specific types/brands of lube for him to use? also any suggestions for good ones for jo as well? any that will work in the shower? thanks for the help.

 

[IowaGuy]

I would hope that you will wait until he is healed.

 

[panda29]

I use GUN OIL silicone based lube

 

[jdoe4822]

I would hope that you will wait until he is healed.

absolutely. this is all predicated on what the doctor says and getting the all clear medically. priority one is that he gets completely better. just getting ideas for when that time comes.

 

[Lube]

Elbow grease

 

[kguy3387]

Yeah obviously listen to the Doc, but in general, i think silicone based lube,(gun oil, wet, etc) is amazing. Its a little bit harder to wash off, but make my skin feel great afterwards!

 

[JasunStrikesBack]

Elbow grease

NO!!!

THat's oil-based, it'll rip up his insides and damage condoms.

Gun Oil is a silicone-based lube which is perfect for anal sex. So is ID Millennium.

Don't use a water-based lube, it dries up really fast and gets sticky. That's made for vaginal sex. Silicone lube is made for anal sex because unlike a vagina, your asshole isn't self-lubricating.

 

[Lube]

^Good points. My bad.

For jo, you can use almond oil (no worries about condoms there). It's safe and natural and edible so he can use his tongue and lips without you having to clean up. Only for jo, though, not fucking or condoms.