Hi everyone!
Brand new here so apologies if this is the wrong place to post this or I break any rules.
I'm 34 and somewhat recently single and recently been feeling like this may be my last time for me to really take advantage of single hood and live out a few of the fantasies I long had. Near the top of that list is to go on a solo trip for 4-5 nights to a city with a vibrant, safe, and very liberal gay scene. My goal is to try and take in as many of craziest, wildest x-rated parties and try and embrace as many new kinks as I safely can. In brief, I want to take a trip where I am solely focused on hedonism sexual pleasure. I've finally decided to bite the bullet and treat myself but want to make it as close to perfect as possible and for that I need your help! My dates are very flexible right now and can plan around festivals. The obvious answer is Amsterdam or Berlin but a little concerned about struggling to get into the better clubs/parties and wasting my time.
Firstly I'm looking for recommendations on where to go. My must-haves are:
- In Europe
- Lively gay cruising scene
- LGBT friendly
Alongside that, it'd be cool if there was any or all of the following:
- Easy for an English speaker
- Frequent sex parties
Any and all advice is much appreciated. Would love to hear of others travel experience too!
Brand new here so apologies if this is the wrong place to post this or I break any rules.
I'm 34 and somewhat recently single and recently been feeling like this may be my last time for me to really take advantage of single hood and live out a few of the fantasies I long had. Near the top of that list is to go on a solo trip for 4-5 nights to a city with a vibrant, safe, and very liberal gay scene. My goal is to try and take in as many of craziest, wildest x-rated parties and try and embrace as many new kinks as I safely can. In brief, I want to take a trip where I am solely focused on hedonism sexual pleasure. I've finally decided to bite the bullet and treat myself but want to make it as close to perfect as possible and for that I need your help! My dates are very flexible right now and can plan around festivals. The obvious answer is Amsterdam or Berlin but a little concerned about struggling to get into the better clubs/parties and wasting my time.
Firstly I'm looking for recommendations on where to go. My must-haves are:
- In Europe
- Lively gay cruising scene
- LGBT friendly
Alongside that, it'd be cool if there was any or all of the following:
- Easy for an English speaker
- Frequent sex parties
Any and all advice is much appreciated. Would love to hear of others travel experience too!


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