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I'm not exactly sure if this was the right section to post this, so move it if need be.



Anyhoo, i feel i need advice. See me and my boyfriend have a good sex life. The problem i come alot earlier than does so then i end up sitting there jacking him off for a long ass time. And i feel embaraased. So i ask are there any tips to keep me goign longer?
 
Easiest answer - save up. Don't jerk off or anything for a day or more before you have sex. Then, when you go to bed, have him get you off right away. By jerking you off, sucking you off, whatever. Rest for a bit, then start kissing, and get back into it. You should both be good for a nice long session after that. :)

Lex
 
It actually sounds like the issue might not be you- it might be your partner. It sounds like he's difficult to get off.

The idea after all is to get off.
 
I don't know whether its appropriate to call it a problem at all and certainly no reason to assess any blame. I know that I am the one in my relationship that takes forever, but usually because I make an effort not to cum. That sounds backwards but I have always made an effort to please my partner first because that is what turns me on. I even will tell my partner not to worry about me and that helps them not focus on whether they are pleasing me.

I think its a matter of communicating what each partner wants and expects and what works or doesn't work. For example, wanking me does no good whatsoever so maybe your partner needs to explain how he prefers to cum. I don't mean to get too personal but I like to cum with a dick in my mouth. And that is because from experience I know there is a 99% chance I will cum. So I say - talk about it and learn a little more about the one you love.
 
KaraBulut said:
It actually sounds like the issue might not be you- it might be your partner. It sounds like he's difficult to get off.

The idea after all is to get off.
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That is certainly the intended end result. But sex would be pretty boring if we all instantly came the second we got naked and touched.

The journey is just as fun as the destination.
 
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