Well, I've been out of the closet for years, and being openly gay in an extremely rural area has its perks (as well as its downside). I was literally flabbergasted at how many closet-cases there are (everywhere)! I had guys from a neighboring town (18 miles away) frequenting a tavern I favored just to accidently chance upon me. That's another story altogether, and I digress. I actually dated Joey's "brother" (best friend since kindergarten) for a few years before Joey and I ever did anything. Never in front of me, but I guess Joey went from calling Will, "brother" to either "sister" or "girlfriend."
I worked 12-hour shifts (3 days one week & 4 the next), and Will and I would honeymoon various casino hotels or non-descript nowhere motel just to get away. After we broke up, Joey took his place (while married with a soon to be pregnant wife). It only took him our second night in a hotel to tell me, "You can suck my cock, if you want." Lol ... I laughed and had him wait 6 weeks before we ever did anything. I started sleeping nude in my own bed the first night; it took him a couple of weeks to follow suit (in his own bed). For some reason or another, he always found a reason to come into the bathroom when I was showering the next morning, and open the shower curtain to talk with me.
On the 6th week, drunken and naked him FINALLY jumped beds, telling me that I was going to suck his cock, even if he had to blow me first (which he did). That will forever remain to be one of my absolute favorite memories!!! Just oral and lots of kissing and heavy petting that night, but I did wake up to his morning wood on my hip, as he had his arm and leg over my naked body. Without asking, I did blow his magnificence to its dry spurt completion (lol, I think I drank up all the semen his nuts had to offer the night before). To this day, I don't know if was awake or not. We didn't graduate to anal for almost 7 months, because of me. I was enjoying having fun, and I felt anal to be too intimate for our friendship. Again, it was him that offered his ass up first, and we enjoy our relationship to this day ... always give and take, so it's not one-sided.
Bartenders were amazed, and now it's just a given how many straight men and women greet me with a hug and closed-mouth kiss. Lol ... I have a few straight friends that actually kiss me out of the blue, in public with tongue!!! I respect their heterosexuality, but damn boy! QUIT TEASING ME!!! So, Joey's grabbing my ass or junk in public is old news. Whether a planned or chance encounter, he always yells, "HUSBAND!!!" whenever we meet!
Our trysts were our own and supposed to be secret; I fully understood and abided. His nude selfies and naughty texts to me becoming known to his live-in baby mama mistress (also shared to his mother) wasn't foreseen by either of us (silly him). The 3 ladies (soon to be ex-wife, current baby mama, and mom) were suspicious for a while, and his phone proved all. LOL ... mom wants him to break up with Liz (baby mama) and commit to me.
Joey is a player and a half - he was molested by a neighbor man from the age of 8 until 13 when he cracked his skull with a baseball bat. No charges were pressed, but true to form: 90% of molested kids are profoundly promiscuous. I cannot deny that I love him, as he is a great and hilarious guy ... he is just not relationship material. 5 girls andone guy shared snap-shots of Joey's texts with them on her FB time-line of him putting the "Hey Baby" on them. She loves, accepts, and wants him ... even extended an invitation for a possible 3-way. YUCK!!! When I enjoy Joey, I enjoy Joey, and Joey ALONE!!!
ever had ppl noticed it in public when he does it to you?
