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He wasn't hard till you touch him? He then became full hard on after you stroked him correct?

Well people especially young people (teenagers and young healthy adults) sometimes get aroused even if there is nothing nearby that physically arouses them. What happened here could be anything, he could be straight, bi, gay, whatever.
 
My personal/unprofessional opinion would be he is just as confused as you and doesn't really know how to deal with things. Maybe he is gay/bi and his 'girlfriend' is between you two, making him seem straight to everyone else.

But yeah, the 'room for two' and him resting his head on you sounds adorable.:luv:
 
umm.. okay..

ask him if he loves his gf ... see wut he thinks about her..

and about marriage ..

ask him str8 stuff.. and u can see from his answers that if he is gay or bi or str8..
 
Even if he turns out to be gay/bi definitely don't mess it up, good friends are too hard to come by.

You said he thinks you're straight, but after that cock-rub he must have some suspicions about your orientation, and he may have before that (I thought I was pretty good at pretending to be straight, turns out I wasn't fooling anyone). If your friend was really straight I don't think he'd be asking you to scratch his back (are we talking scratching skin, or through his shirt?) or let you rub his cock for 5+min. I'd say he's at least curious, if not bi/gay.

As for the watching tv on the bed I would say it depends on how big the bed is first. If it's a small bed and you're practically snuggling then again I'd say he's at least curious, but if there's a lot of space between you I'd say he's just being nice. Second, the whole head resting (besides being really adorable along with the whole room for two thing) pretty much sounds like snuggling. There's a lot of things two people can do that are more intimate then sex (porn proves that sex doesn't have to be intimate) and snuggling can be one of them, so I'd say he's bi/gay.

How drunk was he when he asked you to touch his cock? Because I'd say unless he didn't remember it the next day it's probably something he wants but doesn't have the courage to go after, so to speak.

First things first though, you should tell him that you're bi. I wouldn't mention anything about the signals you're getting from him, not at first. If he's not ready to admit anything you'd be backing him into a corner and it might take him even longer to come out, if he's actually in the closet.

P.S. How big was the hard-on?
 
okay.. let me ask u .. wut u think he is .. gay or bi ??

and which one fits u most?? him being gay or bi..
 
you might say "hey (best friend), i was talking with my old roomate the other day and he mentioned he had been messing around with guys lately, nothing perverse, just trading hand jobs, or laying with eachother, and he asked me what i thought about it. i wasnt sure what to say, what would you say?" and see what he says???

i know what a difficult situation it is. you want to know, but you are afraid of asking directly or initiation something on your suspicisions because you might be wrong and it could blow up in your face, costing you your best friend. this is what alot of us go through.

good luck buddy!(*8*)
 
Here's some cheap advice, if he loves you--even just as a Best Friend-- then be honest about this whole thing. You'll both be no worse off. If he's interested he'll tell you, if not then you're still ok and less frustrated. Honesty is one of love's foundations.

Besides, I don't believe you're confused -I think you are "massively" in love with this guy and it sounds like he's worth it but your love may be more romantic than his. Work it our and you'll be glad you did however it turns out.

It's ok to 'massively" love str8 guys, but that love may have to stay platonic. The size of the love is not proportional to the sex!

God Bless.
 
OK, I'm not being harsh here, but I have to keep it real.

I think you are living in a fantasy. Lust over a "straight" man will do that to you.

I was so disturbed by this thread last night I couldn't even reply to it.

First, you are very lucky you didn't get a beat-down.

Second, you molested him, because you touched him inapropriately without his expressed permission. EVEN though he didn't ask you to stop, and he got a woody, he could have been so shocked he just didn't know what to do.

I see no good coming from this, you may have just outed yourself, to him, and if he talks, to everyone at your school, and possibly ruined a good friendship in the process.

PLEASE in the future be careful what you do, and who you do it with!

*Hugs*
 
Oh please ............

What the fuck has happened over the last 20 years? It used to be that guys could play a little rub and tug and it was no big deal. It wasn't like he was giving a back rub to a stranger. Every sexual advance these days seems to be molestation unless you've had lawyers hammer out an agreement beforehand. No wonder more and more young people are isolated and living in fear of everything.

I think you guys sound cute and if some day you get to even jack one another off because the gf isn't available, you'll have a bond that unites you the rest of your life....even if he is straight.
 
Has he ever given you a backrub or is this just a one sided thing?
 
hideinmybush said:
he has done it for me as well. usually one of us justs rubs the others back then we switch. sometimes one will just do it for the other tho.
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That's pretty cool then. It doesn't mean anything though. I think you overstepped some boundaries by rubbing his dick even though he got aroused and didn't stop you.
 
hideinmybush said:
Like I said before I don't want to mess anything up, but I feel like this is an experience I want to have, and I would rather it be with someone I know and trust. Thanks again for your input.
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you know, this sounds like such a nice and sincere comment, and also a compliment if done correctly...........perhaps you might try saying this to your buddy and see what he says. you can that what you want to do is similar to a back rub,....."just" a dick rub. you take turns, and get your experience, and he is there for you.
 
Oh. I'm so jealous. I wish I had a "straight" friend to do stuff with, even if it's for fun.

I so understand you're situation, because I have been through something like this. I even fell for him, but nothing happened. I hope you stay close friends and like what everybody has said, stay safe.
 
hideinmybush said:
Well I asked him this afternoon what he thought about the whole thing, and he said that it didn't bother him at all. lol now what.
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That took balls to ask. Good job.

I had a very similar situation once with a roommate. He would ask me just about every night to give him a back rub. Over time it became a full body rub, with the only thing off limits being his dick and balls. So you are one step ahead of me (lol). I think he was gay, but in denial. Just like me at the time. Any guy who would rather go shopping than have sex with his very hot girl friend, can't be straight. He said that sex was boring. Interesting enough, he always got hard when I gave him a back rub. Unfortunately neither one of us was brave enough to take it to the next level. We often fell asleep in each others beds after the back rubs. Over time the sexual tension between us actually put a lot of stress on our friendship and really brought it to an end. The emotions were just tearing us up and neither of us knew how to deal with them.

I would say your friends response of it not bothering him at all just screams that he wants you do it more. Had he said it was kind of weird or that he didn't think it wasn't right, then I would say to stay away. He seems to be encouraging at every step. Let's hope the next time he returns the dick rub favor for you.
 
I'm with justaguy - if you think that this could develop into an exclusive relationship, then i would pursue it further.

i think that you should wait and make sure that he has accepted the fact that he is attracted to you before you make any comments about it though. like has been said before you cant force someone out of the closet.

good luck! you two really do sound cute together.
 
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