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Masturbation Problem

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I have a really bad problem with masturbating.
I find that when I do masturbate, my legs have to be completely stretched out (I have to strech them out as far as they'll go) and then I can Cum.
If I don't do that I can't cum, it's really bad when your being intimate with someone and you can't cum at all.

Any suggestions as to how to stop this?
 
It sounds like more of a conditioned response than anything physically wrong. Hard to say for sure, but it that's what it appears. I think cumming is 90% mental and you seem to have a bit of mental block unless the legs are stretched.
 
My partner does the same thing. He straightens his legs in a tense manor. It works for him I guess but I would like him to work on it. Kinda hard for him to sit on my chest and cum on my face when hes gotta have his legs all tensed up.
 
I have things like that *sometimes*, but not *all* the time. Do you do any exercise that includes stretching? sometimes, if i'm off my stretches, things like that happen more often.
 
Try jacking off really hard with your knees bent, put a pillow under your knees while lying flat on your back. See if you can get used to cumming without tensing and straightening your legs.
 
as stated above; i'd recommend practicing in a different position.
 
Maybe you're just not in the right position to cum. I find that I can cum more easily if I'm lying down (in bed) rather than in a standing up position.
 
I'd have to agree and say its a mental thing. I know when I'm by myself, I have no problem masturbating and cumming. Its when I'm with someone that I find it takes more time and effort, though for me having them finger me helps alot. So why dont you try having your partner do something for you while you jack off.
 
Yea. I tense them up really bad and then everything seems to be fine.
I have tried self-control and not stretching them but then I am utterly wasting my energy because nothing will come. I just sit there and jack-off until I'm totally tired, but as soon as I stretch my legs again THERE I GO CUMMING. It's really annoying.
If it's mental I'm really screwed because I don't know what do as of now..But I wanna correct it before I have to sleep with anyone else LOL.
 
practice makes perfect... I used to not be able to cum while standing up (too much wanking to porn on the computer while sitting down methinks!). Just try a different position and after a while all will be OK. Promise!
 
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