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May be with a guy for the first time!

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OK to read the beginning of my acquaintance with this guy look here: http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=297460

OMG, wow. I'm a bit lost for words right now.

This guy who I take the course with. He and I had become friends. From Day 1 I was trying to get closer to him. Just as a friend at first, ''cause I didn't know how he felt. But if what happened tonight is any indication then things may go beyond that.

OK so this guy is bi and he knew I was gay basically from the start. He made me feel at ease and I told him as detailed in the other link. And well, tonight, totally not intending to flirt with him, I ask for his cell number on Facebook. Later on I hop back online, and he's still there.

He says "Do you like me? In a sexual way". It was a shock. Such a good shock, but still a shock. I basically avoided saying an emphatic yes right away. I said stuff like "Yeah..." and "Sure...", all the while, my penis was getting hard. I was totally flabbergasted. Nothing remotely similar has been asked of me before by anyone! After a while I gave a more emphatic answer - that being a yes.

I thought I'd blown it at first honestly. Being me, I said something dumb. I asked him like 3 times if he was serious. And I think it turned him off. OK I know it did. :lol: But I then explained how new to me all this was and I think he forgave me. :lol:

He said out of the blue. "I'm going to bed now, goodnight. Keep smiling." And then I said, "I won't know whether to smile or not unless you tell me if I've blown it." And then he said, "You haven't :kiss:".

All I can say is 'Wow'. He said things like, "I want you in and around my mouth :eek:". God almighty...
 
Once again, txting could be the death of something good.

Stop flirting in 149 characters and get together with the guy. Spend some actual time with him and then decide if he's the guy you want to fuck.
 
rareboy said:
Once again, txting could be the death of something good.

Stop flirting in 149 characters and get together with the guy. Spend some actual time with him and then decide if he's the guy you want to fuck.
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Oh that's no trouble. I see him everyday at the course I'm doing. We've talked heaps. :D

We only Facebook at night after the course is finished. ;)
 
Thanks for the follow up. Good luck with the next stage.
 
MAY be with a guy? MAY? Sir, invitations don't come any better than this. Buy some condoms and lube, and get the fuck OVER there. :)

Lex
 
Meh, I think it's kinda over before it started. I won't go into details but I think this guy's playing games...

It's annoying but whatever, life goes on. :p
 
Hey, another NZer. People seem to be pretty casual here with the whole sexuality thing from my observations, so it's hard to tell whether they are interested or not.

Or maybe it's just me #-o.
 
OK I can't resist not going into details.

Today at course started out fine. We smiled, said hi. Well then it was an assessment deadline day today so we were all working flat out, and well I have a break at one stage, and we chat on Facebook (I know I know, but what the fuck was I supposed to do? The room was full of people, privacy was impossible). He asks me what my plans are tonight. And I said "You Tell Me". I was trying to be more forward then last night, as I thought he wanted that.

Then he says suddenly "G2G bye" kinda out of the blue. Then later I tried to sit next to him, make a bit of idle conversation (again, we were surrounded by people). And well, at the end of the day I went to the toilet, and when I got back he'd left, but while I was in the toilet just before he left, he left this message: "Keep it in your pants Aaron".

WTF? Me keep it in MY pants? I'm not the one who said "I WANT YOU. I want you in and around my mouth".

For fuck's sake. This guy has an anything-but-serious personality. If he hadn't used such overtly sexual language, and didn't seem so complete serious, I would've been able to take this whole thing as a joke. A sick, slightly cruel joke but still a joke.

Another thing that really annoyed me? I got a message from another course-mate saying "Back off, Ethan's not interested". And I was like "Yeah well I'm not the one who started this whole thing...".

Like I said I am annoyed but life goes on...
 
hotatlboi said:
sounds like an asshole.
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Right you are. I now know, he's a complete jerk. I'm better off without him. He totally messed with my feelings. This whole thing to him was a complete joke. I have removed him from Facebook and he can jump of a fucking cliff for all I care.
 
Move on.. anyone who ends up with him in the future.. UGH
 
This thread exposes the other problem with facespacebookpage flirtations; that people will fuck with one another in ways they never could get away with in person.

While there is something to be said for the courtly love correspondence of the past, I think that having to commit your flirtatious and often naughty thoughts on paper with a quill pen is a world away from the staccato seamy innuendo of the facebook era.

And so oooohhhhh, you deleted him as a friend on facebook. Now he only has 4576 'friends' left. Be a man and tell him to his face that he's an asshat for messing with you on-line.

And tell me. What have we learned from this?
 
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