Me and my partner dont really have any fetishes or fantasies...

[darklide634]

So we were wondering what we could do in bed to make it different. We do frottage and that's about it. Otherwise it's just the usual vanillia type sex.

Any suggestions.

 

[aaggii]

Re: Me ans my partner dont really have any fetishes or fantasies...

I´m sure you guys have something that turns you on, even though you are a bit late in descovering it. Watch porn when you´re in bed, it will give you ideas!

 

[hylas]

Re: Me ans my partner dont really have any fetishes or fantasies...

I think blindfolds are very effective. Sex changes drastically if one partner is blindfolded and the other isn't, and it's a safe, low threshold thing to do. Just try it... I didn't really think I'd like it, but then I tried, and now I absolutely love it.

If you want to try bondage, I found this knot useful and easy. Use a thick rope that's about 10m or 30 ft.

Have fun!

 

[Seasoned]

Get a copy of THE JOY OF GAY SEX.

 

[Maklaar13]

It seems to me that you are able to communicate. Once you realize that you want more out of your sex life then the next thing to do is to start experimenting. I must emphasize that communication is the most important part to a happy and healthy sex life with your partner. Talk about it and discuss what type of things you both would like to try. You could make a list of all things that interest you and then decide and sort them out, for example: blind folding a. interested b. not interested c. maybe. Have fun and be safe.

 

[TX-Beau]

Hmmmmmmm......

Everyone has fantasies. Everyone. What got you off before you were dating? Cops? Cowboys? Twinkies? What?

 

[darklide634]

Hmmmmmmm......

Everyone has fantasies. Everyone. What got you off before you were dating? Cops? Cowboys? Twinkies? What?

Twinks, hard ass pounding, cubs fucking twinks, smooth cubs, huge cocks, lots of cum/ big cum shots.

Never really has a fantasy for people dressed up.

 

[darklide634]

As I can't edit my post. I'll add these.
Big balls, balls slapping the bottom while being fucked, frat like guys.

 

[bruce379]

As I can't edit my post. I'll add these.
Big balls, balls slapping the bottom while being fucked, frat like guys.

Ah, it appears you like guys like these into the mix. It's a threesome then. If you trust each other and are emotionally secure with your bf, then you're gonna have a lot of fun just make sure you all play safe.

Have fun!

 

[darklide634]

Ah, it appears you like guys like these into the mix. It's a threesome then. If you trust each other and are emotionally secure with your bf, then you're gonna have a lot of fun just make sure you all play safe.

Have fun!

My boyfriend satisfies all my needs in bed. And besides he believes threesoms are too emotional. He sees a threeaom as cheating. So that's out if question.

 

[dragon08]

Don't go with the threesome, it'll just complicate things. Get a few toys, tie him up, get costumes, role play, make games, have sex in odd places, cover each other with food, get messy with chocolate syrup, play strip/sex poker, be creative.

 

[AlmondMilk]

Massage and lead to the frottage

 

[water90]

I have the same problem and I didn't even know what frottage meant! My sex life is pretty vanilla, he cums within 2-3 minutes of fucking me doggy style, missionary or other positions doesn't, weird.

No threesomes or open relationships because neither of us are into that.

I might try the blindfold one actually, it sounds interesting.