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meeting people for hookups/fun
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Jory
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Simpley put; YES
skaterboi
Porn Star
Never have and don't think I would ever consider it 
You thought it might be easier to just go to a gay bar? I'm sure youll be able to meet someone in the flesh who will want to come home and play?
You thought it might be easier to just go to a gay bar? I'm sure youll be able to meet someone in the flesh who will want to come home and play?
SilverRRCloud
I'd rather be a Sexgod:)
YUP. I have done that. And most gay men, I know have done the same, too.
And, I do agree with SKATERBOI. Basically, if you only want to play, going to a club and picking up your partner is the most efficent and economic strategy, there is. WYSIWYG.
On the other hand, if you are looking for a buddy of any kind and/or a potential BF material, web sites might be a better alternative.
SC
And, I do agree with SKATERBOI. Basically, if you only want to play, going to a club and picking up your partner is the most efficent and economic strategy, there is. WYSIWYG.
On the other hand, if you are looking for a buddy of any kind and/or a potential BF material, web sites might be a better alternative.
SC
Brer Fox
Slut
As it stands I am a big advocate for hook-up sites. Everyone I have met has been exactly what I bargained for, or at least just as good as anyone you'd see in a bar somewhere. If you use your discretion and always remember 'no' is a word in your vocabulary you cannot do anything but win. For the one weirdo in the batch, the rest are all people just like you looking for the exact same thing you are.
A hook-up is meeting a guy and getting to it, that is the point, but I have had a few really great times. It isn't like you just namelessly do each other and sprint out the door, though that could sometimes be the case. I like it... it may be promiscuous and hedonistic, but I love the ability to explore my sexuality so freely. Living in a place where a 'gay club' is as common as a stable full of unicorns, it is really all we've got.
Just be wise about feeling people out, and always be safe, and you can have a really good time. I only use Manhunt, as I have found it to be both the easiest to use and the most respectable. Junk like Craigslist or other seedier sites I would stay away from.
A hook-up is meeting a guy and getting to it, that is the point, but I have had a few really great times. It isn't like you just namelessly do each other and sprint out the door, though that could sometimes be the case. I like it... it may be promiscuous and hedonistic, but I love the ability to explore my sexuality so freely. Living in a place where a 'gay club' is as common as a stable full of unicorns, it is really all we've got.
Just be wise about feeling people out, and always be safe, and you can have a really good time. I only use Manhunt, as I have found it to be both the easiest to use and the most respectable. Junk like Craigslist or other seedier sites I would stay away from.
skaterboi
Porn Star
Whats the difference between the two?
Like said earlier: In a word, yes.
M
MRMATTX2
Guest
Yes.
drhladnjak
JUB Addict
I have and generally I got what I expected.
Both online and in bars/clubs work, but each has a different dynamic. In clubs or bars, you generally know less about the person since there's often loud music (precluding talking) and dim lighting (everybody seems to look better in low light). Perhaps more significantly, most people are drinking which can really distort reality of both parties. Typically, you're paying money in the form of drinks, cover and transportation. Guys go to bars for a variety of reasons, so you may have to talk to a few before you find somebody who's looking for what you're looking for.
Meeting online gives you time to ask questions and suss out the situation. When you meet them in real life, most guys are sober. Unfortunately, in my experience there are more tweakers online, which is something you need to watch out for. The big downside to online is that some people have pictures that are out of date or shot in a way to hide their flaws. Occasionally, somebody is significantly better or worse looking in real life than online. On sites like manhunt, it's pretty clear from the outset that most guys on there are looking for sex. Most are fairly up front about their intentions in their profile. Costs are mainly from monthly fees for certain sites (manhunt is $12/mo, cheaper if you buy several months at a time--about as much as a couple drinks), although some (like craigslist) are free.
Both online and in bars/clubs work, but each has a different dynamic. In clubs or bars, you generally know less about the person since there's often loud music (precluding talking) and dim lighting (everybody seems to look better in low light). Perhaps more significantly, most people are drinking which can really distort reality of both parties. Typically, you're paying money in the form of drinks, cover and transportation. Guys go to bars for a variety of reasons, so you may have to talk to a few before you find somebody who's looking for what you're looking for.
Meeting online gives you time to ask questions and suss out the situation. When you meet them in real life, most guys are sober. Unfortunately, in my experience there are more tweakers online, which is something you need to watch out for. The big downside to online is that some people have pictures that are out of date or shot in a way to hide their flaws. Occasionally, somebody is significantly better or worse looking in real life than online. On sites like manhunt, it's pretty clear from the outset that most guys on there are looking for sex. Most are fairly up front about their intentions in their profile. Costs are mainly from monthly fees for certain sites (manhunt is $12/mo, cheaper if you buy several months at a time--about as much as a couple drinks), although some (like craigslist) are free.
bluedragon4
JUB Addict
At bars yes many times in my past. But not really online. My friends and I agree those people are not as hot as they pretend to be. A lot of fake pics. At least at the bar you see what you get. Besides at the bar you can flirt and have a good time. You might be a whore but no one knows for sure. You start hooking up online than you for sure look like a dirty whore.
Funny story...
I'm not out at all, but I posted a profile online anyway...and I read this profile that sounded great, so I sent a message to him. So we chatted online, things were going well, we were kind of cautious about personal info, so we just knew eachother's first name.
After chatting some more, we found out we already knew eachother....but neither of us knew the other was bi.
We've hooked up a few times. It's been 6 months since then, and things worked out ok...we can be open with eachother, even mess around a bit, and somehow the friendship didn't change much. I don't see anything more coming of it, but it's funny how it never would have happened if we didn't chat online.
I'm not out at all, but I posted a profile online anyway...and I read this profile that sounded great, so I sent a message to him. So we chatted online, things were going well, we were kind of cautious about personal info, so we just knew eachother's first name.
After chatting some more, we found out we already knew eachother....but neither of us knew the other was bi.
We've hooked up a few times. It's been 6 months since then, and things worked out ok...we can be open with eachother, even mess around a bit, and somehow the friendship didn't change much. I don't see anything more coming of it, but it's funny how it never would have happened if we didn't chat online.
Brer Fox
Slut
Manhunt has a lot of guys on it, the better crowd of the two I have actually tried (men4sexnow.com and Manhunt) and is a lot easier to use than men4sex. A lot of these sites make it damn near impossible to actually function, but Manhunt is really user friendly.
There is no fee to use Manhunt. For a while, it was completely open at no charge, but since about March of this year they began closing features off. However, you still get seemingly unlimited e-mails and the ability to see anyone and contact anyone for free, so you do not really need to pay. All you pay (that you actually use) for is the ability to IM through the site, the ability to see pictures beyond their primary one at full size, and the ability to see what e-mails you have sent (your 'sent box', which is convenient but unnecessary). There is no real need to IM when you can just sent on-site e-mails back and forth, the pictures you can still see, and at a lower resolution (like 800x600) they jump up to like an inch wide, so you can still get what you need to.
I still use the free version and it is fine. But I would probably pay if I were not under my parents' shadow.
There is no fee to use Manhunt. For a while, it was completely open at no charge, but since about March of this year they began closing features off. However, you still get seemingly unlimited e-mails and the ability to see anyone and contact anyone for free, so you do not really need to pay. All you pay (that you actually use) for is the ability to IM through the site, the ability to see pictures beyond their primary one at full size, and the ability to see what e-mails you have sent (your 'sent box', which is convenient but unnecessary). There is no real need to IM when you can just sent on-site e-mails back and forth, the pictures you can still see, and at a lower resolution (like 800x600) they jump up to like an inch wide, so you can still get what you need to.
I still use the free version and it is fine. But I would probably pay if I were not under my parents' shadow.