Met a guy but don't know if I trust him

[vidarr]

If it were me in your position I would move on..
The fact that he has several accounts suggests that he's not looking for either relationship or hookup, but is instead only interested in playing games.

I dunno, he seems like a compulsive liar and that is a clear sign to me to cut that person out of my life.

 

[altlover85]

I would run, not walk, in the other direction.

He's lied about multiple things and it's been over 6 months and you haven't met. I'm sure there are honest, cute guys that are in the same boat as you are. This guy is not one of them, from what you've told us.

 

[Seasoned]

It sounds like he knows what guys want to hear and that's what he gives them.

 

[DeadRussianSpaceMonkey]

It sounds like he knows what guys want to hear and that's what he gives them.

Walk away, cut contact- You might not want to, but you are going to be better off. Find someone whom you can trust.

Personally, I don't like being lied- I find it insulting to my intelligence- I'm honest with people, and expect the same in return. Trust in any type of relationship, short lived or not is key. I would not fool around with anyone who broke my trust. There are more guys out there, keep moving. Don't overthink it, just walk. Keep your pride. Wank one out tonight.

 

[Enduster]

Not to be rude dude, but you've lied to him as well. You're not "str8" while seeking out sex with guys. Come on! Maybe he's as terrified of admitting he's a big ole, power bottom, fag, as you are. Sorry bro, but it seems you're the pot calling the kettle black here.

 

[KaraBulut]

It's a little difficult to out in the world of uncertainty and experimentation yet trying to determine who is being honest and distinguish between what is real versus what is a lie.

It's hard to expect someone to be honest with you when they're probably not being honest with themselves.

And if you're honest with yourself, you have to realize that you're a straight guy wanting to experiment with another guy. And you've been on same-sex dating sites. You've been on Skype. Yet you're looking for sex with another guy that doesn't have a lot of strings attached. If you're on dating sites and Skype, chances are that you aren't just curious. And chances are that the other guys aren't just curious either.

If you're just looking for a guy for no strings attached sex, then why would it be important for him not to be having sex with someone else? You say you straight and you aren't looking for a commitment from another guy, yet you're concerned that this guy is sleeping with other guy? Think about that question for a moment.

It's not exactly the world of honesty that you're trafficking in, you know?

If you want to find a guy to experiment with, you're going to have to stop looking for someone who meets all the critieria that mirrors your situation. Instead, find a guy you like, that you are attracted to and that you trust to be discreet about things. And you really need to think about whether your curiosity is going to be satified from a just an NSA encounter with a guy. It sounds like there may be more to this than just curiosity.

 

[Rolyo85]

Personally, I'm a huge non-believer in "straight curious" guys. There's so much denial here it's not even funny.

It's all lies and hiding in the end, so the fact that some random dude has perfected fucking strangers from inside the closet doesn't really make me point and scream "liar" anymore. Whatever workss, as long as you can't be honest with who you are...