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More success with str8s in big or small towns???

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douggie77

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So, I'm 45 and have never sucked a cock but I want to! I don't want any romantic entanglements, and for this and many other reasons I prefer str8 guys. I'm looking to move to a more remote area in Northern Ontario (one of the bigger cities, which run 40,000 - 150,000 people) and wonder if it's easier to find regulars in such an environment because there aren't a ton of ABSs and such, or if it's harder because everyone knows everyone. I'm looking at a real lifestyle change, and part of that is that I want to have some buds for whom I can be available for a good BJ whenever they're feeling it, but I don't know how practical it is. Anyone have any experience with this?

Honestly, I don't really even know about the reality of all of this. I currently work a ton and never have time for any of this. On the one hand, guys are horny and I can totally see how the economy of the situation would work out in the favor of a discrete cocksucker who wants nothing in return, but on the other hand, I know that guys are very threatened by even a whisper of homosexuality, even though if left to their own devices, they'd stick their dick in just about any hole that would provide warm, wet relief. (I know it's true of me!)

So, is it easier or harder to find guys open to a cocksucker in smaller towns? I know that I have a lot in front of me in terms of figuring out how to make it known that I'm open to providing service, not to mention learning how to give a quality BJ, but I want to know how this all works. So much of what I read about the prevalence of str8s getting head on the DL seems to be quasi-mythological, but guys are just so horny that I have to imagine that it's a very real major undercurrent of society that no one knows about.

Thanks.
 
The only advice I can think of for gauging the amount of "activity" in a given area is to go on a site like Craigslist and go on the "men seeking men" section. Other sites people around here are familiar with might be better. Or post an ad saying a cocksucker's going to be in town next week and see what kind of response you get (granted, that's leading guys on since you won't actually be going there).

Good luck.
 
I moved from a pretty large city (Baltimore) to a small town in Texas and it depends what you are looking for. I agree... go to craigslist and see what kind of post you see there. My town does not even have a section on CL - we have to use a neighboring cities page.
 
As a top that's lived in big cities and small towns, I prefer small towns. Big towns have too many guys that hook up with too many guys for my peace of mind. Takes more time to find the right regular, one that's a "str8" bottom in particular, in a small town but they're the most discreet and safer.
 
No man that's hetero/straight goes out and picks up men for blowjobs.

Find bisexual and gay men to have sex with, or just get used to being alone and not having sex at all.
 
alphacentauri said:
No man that's hetero/straight goes out and picks up men for blowjobs.

Find bisexual and gay men to have sex with, or just get used to being alone and not having sex at all.
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alphacentauri, that wasn't what his post was about. Douggie77 asked a legitimate question, and with the exception of your reply, has received legitimate responses.

That being said, I live in a town of about 120k in the Midwest. There's 5 universities in my city, 2 of them Christian. As I've posted in other threads, there's no shortage of straight guys who want the no-hassle of another guy blowing them. What's surprised me somewhat, is I get more straight guys from the Christian universities than from the other 3! So yes, I think it's easier to find straight guys to blow in a somewhat smaller city. Good luck!
 
Big cities are more easier because you have gay clubs and neighborhoods and gyms and all that jazz and your more likely to meet a gay or bi sexual guy. I live in a small town every once in a while i get hookups. My straight friends are in back to back relationships and i never been in one.
 
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