Mostly straight curious about cock

[Jtyler]

I am sure that I am not that unusual. I consider myself straight and not attracted to men. However, aim attracted to a nice cock and to the idea of sucking it. I am scared about how to proceed. Gloryholes, escorts and backpages just seem too unsafe. I have been to some porn shops that had guys hanging around the back rooms but was too uneasy to approach anyone.

I am not interested in sex with a guy outside of just experimenting sucking a cock. However, i would like to feel comfortable with the guy. What is the best way to meet someone and possibly try this? approaching friends is out of the question. I live near North Hollywood and have heard about bathhouses, would this be a good way to meet someone and if so, what would be the right way to proceed?

I have thought about an escort simply because I may start sucking band hate it. At least with a escort, I would not feel guilty about stopping.

 

[zebec847]

Your instincts seem good. Definitely want to do something that is safe both sexually and for your person. I think its a pity you can't approach a friend but you say that is not possible. You also say that you are attracted to a "nice cock". That means something different for almost everyone so I would suggest you start by defining what that means, how long? how thick? cut? uncut? dark? light? etc. Once you have that figured out you could go to craigslist or similar sites and make a post. If you are willing to post a picture of your own cock you will likely get more responses as many people are interested in sucking your cock too. Or the escort would work if you have the extra cash although there is plenty of sex for free.

 

[iwantbig]

good luck with that , you'll love it , sucking cock is just so good

 

[MattClaimer]

Go with your gut about meeting people in strange places and esp places that are a little more "questionable". As Zebec said, you want to protect your physical safety and your health.

Otherwise it's really not all that different than finding a girl you wanna get with. You just need to hit the right environment and be in the right place. Craig's List is one way to break the ice - a gay club in a close-by city that you don't live in (if you're concerned about others finding out) An escort is another good way, like you said, or a massage, etc. if you can afford those activities.

And as for feeling bad about it if you find you don't like it, I'd say whether it's an escort or just a guy you hook up with, make sure you let them know straight up that it's your first time, you're a little nervous maybe and all that. Professing your own uncertainty and nervousness with the other person will help put you at ease and also give them the right frame of mind to be helpful and guide you through the whole thing.

Hope it works out for ya bro. Good luck!

 

[kcboi]

Adam 4 Adam.com and manhunt.net are two hook up sites where you can explain what you told us and see if anyone in your area is willing to help you out... chat with them and let your gut tell you who is real (there are LOTS of flakes on the internet!) best of luck
I'd gladly help you out if we lived in proximity to each other.

 

[Jtyler]

I would suggest you start by defining what that means, how long? how thick? cut? uncut? dark? light? etc. Once you have that figured out you could go to craigslist or similar sites and make a post. If you are willing to post a picture of your own cock you will likely get more responses as many people are interested in sucking your cock too. Or the escort would work if you have the extra cash although there is plenty of sex for free.

Wow, in terms of a cock, this one is a beauty. I would love to be her. Not that a black cock wouldn't be nice...

I am very oral in my straight sex, so I know I would do a good job after I got over the awkwardness. Like I said, I am not really interested in getting sucked or kissing, for me it is just about worshiping that cock and giving it pleasure. I am just very curious what it would be like.

Is it weird that I an not attracted to men, just a nice cock?

 

[seven2go]

^To me it isn't weird........but from the looks of THAT cock you're setting your sights pretty high for your first time.......
My gut feeling about you is once you DO get a dick in your mouth you're going to love it.......

 

[chewchilla]

good luck with that , you'll love it , sucking cock is just so good

Yes, yes it is!

 

[Jtyler]

^To me it isn't weird........but from the looks of THAT cock you're setting your sights pretty high for your first time.......
My gut feeling about you is once you DO get a dick in your mouth you're going to love it.......

So you guys think the bathhouse is a good meeting spot?

Not really sure how to approach someone, especially since I am not attracted to guys per se, I just have this desire to try this. You guys think it would be a turnoff if someone was just interested in exploring and not in anything more?

 

[BiMike]

If you can pluck up courage to go to a bathhouse and walk around with just a towel around your waist I am sure you will find the temptation to suck one of the great cocks on offer too strong to resist ! Plenty of guys would just love it ! Best of luck I think you could become addicted so watch out

 

[Thrasher12]

So you guys think the bathhouse is a good meeting spot?

Not really sure how to approach someone, especially since I am not attracted to guys per se, I just have this desire to try this. You guys think it would be a turnoff if someone was just interested in exploring and not in anything more?

Not really - you might pick up something just as easily from a guy in a bathhouse as you are from an escort. As for the exploring bit, well I guess that depends on whom your asking. Personally I wouldn't be offended nor would I find it a turn off, but I cannot speak on the behalf of every gay man on the planet

 

[Jtyler]

If you can pluck up courage to go to a bathhouse and walk around with just a towel around your waist I am sure you will find the temptation to suck one of the great cocks on offer too strong to resist ! Plenty of guys would just love it ! Best of luck I think you could become addicted so watch out

Thanks, you guys are awesome.

 

[Justmarc]

Bathhouse is a bigger risk of getting std, the dangerous one, one told me.. Be very careful..

 

[MattClaimer]

Bathhouse is a bigger risk of getting std, the dangerous one, one told me.. Be very careful..

Exactly right.

But ANY kind of anonymous hookup runs a risk - from disease, to getting the shit beat out of you, etc.

Friend of mine is an escort and he's A) very safe as far as safe sex practices with his clients, and B) he gets tested on a regular basis with the same tests that the porn industry uses on the actors/actresses. This way he can ensure his clients that he's safe.

And after talking to him, he's told me that most of the better escorts from reliable "services", and the guys on the higher-end pricing scale, can usually provide current medical history and certification that they've been recently tested. He said do not be afraid to ask them up front if they can prove they're safe, and if they won't tell you or can't show you their papers, then find one who can.

(and in my own personal experiences, first-time, married, "straight" guys who have a wife and kids at home are usually a safe bet, because they're not going to be out whoring around, and they sure aren't going to be doing a lot that would compromise their marriage, or put their wife and kids at risk from diseases, etc. Some of my best one-time sex has been with those dudes, and there are a LOT of them out there, and hot ones at that! )

 

[Bi Married Male]

(and in my own personal experiences, first-time, married, "straight" guys who have a wife and kids at home are usually a safe bet, because they're not going to be out whoring around, and they sure aren't going to be doing a lot that would compromise their marriage, or put their wife and kids at risk from diseases, etc. Some of my best one-time sex has been with those dudes, and there are a LOT of them out there, and hot ones at that! )[/QUOTE]

@matt
I have been saying tis for years. It is scary how you and I think alike so often.

 

[Medusa]

Exactly right.

But ANY kind of anonymous hookup runs a risk - from disease, to getting the shit beat out of you, etc.

Friend of mine is an escort and he's A) very safe as far as safe sex practices with his clients, and B) he gets tested on a regular basis with the same tests that the porn industry uses on the actors/actresses. This way he can ensure his clients that he's safe.

And after talking to him, he's told me that most of the better escorts from reliable "services", and the guys on the higher-end pricing scale, can usually provide current medical history and certification that they've been recently tested. He said do not be afraid to ask them up front if they can prove they're safe, and if they won't tell you or can't show you their papers, then find one who can.

(and in my own personal experiences, first-time, married, "straight" guys who have a wife and kids at home are usually a safe bet, because they're not going to be out whoring around, and they sure aren't going to be doing a lot that would compromise their marriage, or put their wife and kids at risk from diseases, etc. Some of my best one-time sex has been with those dudes, and there are a LOT of them out there, and hot ones at that! )

Well if,that's the case, can you please explain to me how come these men do not divorce their wives, and marry a shemale, or a man? I mean it seems pretty easy to do instead of cheating on their wives,who don't deserve it.

 

[Jtyler]

Well if,that's the case, can you please explain to me how come these men do not divorce their wives, and marry a shemale, or a man? I mean it seems pretty easy to do instead of cheating on their wives,who don't deserve it.

I guess I fall into that category. Love my wife, love sex, love her pussy. Not attracted to men, Just curious about sucking a big cock. Perhaps it is about handling a bigger penis then I have. Perhaps it is a desire to be submissive to that big cock alpha male. I am very oral with my wife, so maybe it is just curiosity about that other type of oral.

 

[MattClaimer]

Well if,that's the case, can you please explain to me how come these men do not divorce their wives, and marry a shemale, or a man? I mean it seems pretty easy to do instead of cheating on their wives,who don't deserve it.

I can't explain why anybody does anything - people do what they want for their own reasons.

As for the guys who fit into this category who I've been with, they simply want to hook up with a dude, they're not looking for a relationship with a dude, in fact, in getting to know a couple of them, they've said they couldn't be in a relationship with a guy, love a guy like they love their wife, etc.

So in that case, why would they give up their married life, the openly heterosexual side of their life, their kids, etc. just so they could suck the occasional cock or occasionally get fucked by a dude?

If they're not looking for a commitment, then it's just a sex-thing for them. They have an itch that they get scratched when they need to, and that's all there is to it.

These men are bisexual and they're simply getting something from a man that they can not get from a woman. Be it their wife or a girlfriend or whatever. It's just sex, not someone looking for love.

 

[Medusa]

I can't explain why anybody does anything - people do what they want for their own reasons.

As for the guys who fit into this category who I've been with, they simply want to hook up with a dude, they're not looking for a relationship with a dude, in fact, in getting to know a couple of them, they've said they couldn't be in a relationship with a guy, love a guy like they love their wife, etc.

So in that case, why would they give up their married life, the openly heterosexual side of their life, their kids, etc. just so they could suck the occasional cock or occasionally get fucked by a dude?

If they're not looking for a commitment, then it's just a sex-thing for them. They have an itch that they get scratched when they need to, and that's all there is to it.

These men are bisexual and they're simply getting something from a man that they can not get from a woman. Be it their wife or a girlfriend or whatever. It's just sex, not someone looking for love.

Thanks it kind of helps,but why can't these men do these thing while they are single, and not attach? And I would only assume since men mostly are driven by sex when it comes to relationships, and I have heard from men that men tend to be better at sex,why not just be with a man? I mean is it still taboo for them?

 

[Medusa]

I guess I fall into that category. Love my wife, love sex, love her pussy. Not attracted to men, Just curious about sucking a big cock. Perhaps it is about handling a bigger penis then I have. Perhaps it is a desire to be submissive to that big cock alpha male. I am very oral with my wife, so maybe it is just curiosity about that other type of oral.

Well i guess that helps me a little.Sometimes,when I am reading these types of situations it seems like the men want their cake, and eat it too. Although I wonder how they would feel if they caught their wives cheating on them?