Mostly straight curious about cock

[MattClaimer]

Thanks it kind of helps,but why can't these men do these thing while they are single, and not attach? And I would only assume since men mostly are driven by sex when it comes to relationships, and I have heard from men that men tend to be better at sex,why not just be with a man? I mean is it still taboo for them?

OK - it's not something you decide to only do when you're single. Ya know, horny is horny, sexual beings are what we are all in the order of procreation and continuing the species. Some of us are just hardwired a little differently and go beyond the "having sex with opposite gender ONLY to reproduce" aspect. Some of us also have a switch that lets us just enjoy sex with whomever of our species is willing to reciprocate or participate.

Not every dude out there is willing to turn off his desire once he's in a relationship. And that's a whole other ballgame. You're getting into societal norms or standards of what is acceptable, in society, and what isn't. There's nothing written in stone that states you HAVE to do what the mainstream does and says "just because" everyone else does.

There are a lot of men in open relationships, gay and straight, and their partners are perfectly accepting of that and enjoy it as well.

Lot of bisexual men out there who want to have a wife, the relationship that comes with the wife, kids and that "complete family" ideal. BUT, they also want to have sex with men but only for the sex. Some are open with their wives about it, some are not.

And in the case of not being open, there is a great risk of disaster and destroying the marriage and even losing the kids, if things are found out and the actions of that man are revealed to his wife in a bad and surprising way. So it depends on what one man may consider being worth the risk, while another who feels the same desire to have sex with a man, will keep his desire and feelings buried deep inside and never act on them or tell another soul, including the wife. So yes, it is "taboo to them", as you said. However, that guy who feels that way is probably never going to be honest with himself and will never have sex of any kind with another man as long as he lives, regardless of how bad he wants too, whether he's married or not.