My BF has NO sex drive! PART 2!

[chance1]

Thanks guys yeah I only have a weeks worth of utilities pay for. Rent and electric is square.. we'll see how the dynamic changes when everything is over with... I still want to be his friend. He is a great guy...if a little desperate right now...

sort of an odd sitch

which can cause people to act up ..........

sometimes that is indicative of their REAL personality

sometimes it is an aberration

time will tell

the NEW relationship sounds MUCH better so that's the thing that's important

 

[bankside]

One thing that really put me off though was after I caught him today he said he wouldn't mind having a back to back jo session and I was like, really? You are the one who was cheated on in the past (not by me) and you are completely against cheating. You know I'm with this guy. How could you even suggest that? For the record I tried to have some friends with benifits fun with him when I was weak during our break up suggesting back to back or what have you but OBVIOUSLY that offer has expired...

He is just ...I don't know. ..I'm confused..

I basically have to side with the crowd saying "Turn the page, don't bother trying to figure it out." But all of this happened less than 2 months ago. You'll have to cut him some slack if your ex doesn't take your new relationship as seriously as you do. You've only just met this new guy.

Anyway, good luck in your separate lives. I can't imagine becoming friends with someone I know as a lover.

 

[Just_Believe18]

Yeah, he is no good. You are going to be so much better off without him.

 

[Lefty]

That isn't really fair J.B.

He probably is good. Something put the 2 of them together once.

They both were naive, they both were inexperienced. They both were

starting their lifess vision quests.

The boys to men to wise old men to dead old men is long and arduous.

I parable life as like cars....first you have someone help you to steer,

use the lights, the brakes, the wipers..even tune the radio. Then one day,

it's DMV and the real ride starts. Oil changes, flat tires, worn tires fender

benders, drive in sex and trips to the beach. As time goes on the Car Lot

and a new one that fits your changing/growing needs....Trucks, sedans, 2

or 4 wheel drive, motor cycles, maybe a wagon (woodies were fun lol) 5spd

two seat convertible to luxury limo...according to time and needs. But first you

gotta learn to drive........Justin is on the Car Lot now.

Don't bad mouth his student vehicles, celebrate the one he is buying

now and what every trade in or trade ups might be necessary 'till he gets to

that hearse and his last limo ride on THIS highway.

Drive JJ....but please, observe the rules of the road.

 

[DonQuixote]

Lefty,
Are you really Brian Wilson?
My little deuce coupe, with four on the floor . . .

Seriously, a nice allgory.
Somes of us keep our vehicles running thru dents and dings, and even Winter Salt rusting.

 

[Lefty]

Thanks donnie........I think...........

didn't mean for it to be all gory


and everybody knows that throughout the the dings and Saltohs
of egregious winter Subararu is the candle I hold before me,
all wheel drive toward my hand

(okaythat was pretty bad...I know..

 

[DonQuixote]

Ooops. All-E-gory, lol.

You know - allusion and that kinda shit.

 

[GiacomoPisani]

i'm also in a situation very similar to yours but i'm planning to get rid of him pretty soon.but we live together and he helps me pay the bills so at this moment is not convenient for me,i'm dating his cousin,which i'm in love with,but i'm still very emotionally attached to him,coz he was my first lover.he gives me sex and companionship,but he has always denied me love.he has never given me affection coz he says that he is bisexual and he is emotionally attracted only to females and that he finds females more attractive than men,although we we have been together for 3 years now.he has cheated on me with several girls.
of course i pretend that i don't care or that i'm tough but inside of me i 'm incensed.my experience is that little by little you start feeling less and less love and attraction for them.the most difficult part for me is that i know that he loves me,but he just doesn't like to admit it.he also think that i don't love him because there no communication between us.but i'm in love with his cousin and very soon we are gonna be living together.i no longer care for him at all.

 

[gwailo]

"Very similar" would not be the term I'd use to describe. There was love, I wasn't staying with him out of convenience and no one cheated (openly, it sounds)...

At any rate, blizz, dings and dents a pleanty, I pretty much let the car go to shit before I finally gave up on it. I think I used two or three whole rolls of duct tape to secure the bumper on but it just wouldn't hold...

Ed, I don't think I'm at the dealership anymore. I picked my car. Short term lease to start out with the option to buy at the terms end

 

[Lefty]

Okay, just remember the 30 days buyers remorse clause.

And do not invest your life savings ... you are not at that point

of desperate need for a mode of conveyance. The lease is a fantastic

option under the current economy.

 

[gwailo]

I REALLY like this car, though...

 

[Lefty]

I understand my boy.

When I traded in my first horse and buggy I loved

the new one. But the winter weather hit and I

learned about open tops. Not saying negating your

selection lad.....just that once around the block is not

enough. Short term lease will show how well the new

vehicle fits the old garage.....even if the garage was

remodeled.

 

[gwailo]

I hear you, baby. He does still have that new car smell

When the plastic aroma dissipates, we'll see if a pep boys air freshener maintains..

You will definitely be on priority high alert

 

[altlover85]

Congrats on getting out of a bad situation. I hope things work with this new guy.

 

[gwailo]

Thanks! Me too!