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My bisexual boyfriend.

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hi guys

my boyfriend who i have now been with for a while and i really feel i want to spend all of my life with him, is bisexual. im totally gay myself and have never had a bisexual boyfriend.

im worried that i wont be enough for him and that sooner or later he will want a girlfriend, this would be my worst nightmare.

i know he cares a lot for me :D but he says he likes guys and girls completely equally. no preference at all (guys are obviously better lol)

so i wondered if you guys have a certain preference... i cant see that it is possible to like both completely and exactly the same because we all have preferences about everything.

thanks for your help!!!!

x
 
I'm bisexual myself & I'm in a gay relationship for almost 6 months now and I WOULDN'T leave because I actually love him, and I care. And I do want to spend the rest of my life with him. For sure. I would never leave for someone else. Not even for Britney Spears. But yeah, he worries, he worries a lot. I talk to him about it though, and that sort of chills him again.

So, stop worrying and talk to your boyfriend about it... I'm sure he'll understand your fears.

Good luck mate.
 
^ Umm, a lot of people would. She's still hot, she has the right face, the gorgeous bottom, the flat stomach is in the works... And her bank account... Umm... Yeah, you should know about it - and it's growing.

But yeah, that's not part of the discussion... We're going off topic :badgrin:
 
If you two are meant to be together, you'll stay together. It's understandable to not understand how his bisexuality works, but only he, himself, can. If you have concerns, you should talk to him--an open flow of communication is good for a relationship.
 
Dude,

He may leave you. And any other exclusively gay dude, who has never ever touched a female may also dump you at a drop of a hat for whatever reason or for absolutely no reason, whatsoever.

It is called 'free will' and there is really nothing you can do about it.

Entering into any LTR of any kind and type pre-supposes the risk of being dumped at any time. And it also gives you the very same right. Relationships are based on a strong sense of societal symmetry, as they say.

So, keep your man happy. Do your best for both of you and leave your future to do its own work.

SC
 
Not sure why bisexuals always get this bad wrap that we are the only ones that cheat!

His sexual preference has nothing to do with whether he is the type person that can cheat or not.

Str8 folks get divorced all the time because one person cheated on the other. Gay relationships get broken up every day because one of the partners were unfaithful.

The capacity to cheat is based on the person, NOT their sexuality.

So then the question is.... Has he given you some reason, other then him telling you he is bi, for you to think that he would cheat on you? If not, give him a chance, he might just surprise you and be completely loyal.


Joshua
 
Joshua is right. Bisexuals always get this stereotype that they cheat all the time. Not everybody like that is bi, just as not every gay man is a pervert, or how every straight guy is homophobic. There's also a really good article in this forum from Advocate Online that discusses bisexuality. It might also be a good read for you.
 
I'm all gay, buddy. And if your man says that he loves guys and girls equally, then why don't you just take his word on this?? I'm sure he's speaking the truth!

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Things might turn bad, he might leave you, he might date a girl after you, but it doesn't mean he will, just being bisexual doesn't mean he will go off with a girl eventually, it just means he can be atracted to girls as well as guys.

I use the Twink v Bear explination, you can be atracted to both of them, even though they are compleatly different ends of the male spectrum, you could be dating a Twink, but it doesn't mean that any hot Bear that walks past is instantly going to make you cheat on your twink boyfriend, thats just how it works with bisexuals, you can be atracted to both.

Just by being in a relationship doesn't stop you being atracted to other people, gay guys will still be atracted to other guys, theres just as much chance as you going off with another guy than him leaving you for a girl or a guy.
 
BRITNEY SPEARS?!!!! I totally spit out my milk everywhere when I read that.
 
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