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My boyfriend... and the sex.

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:cool:Ok I'm not sure if this is in the right spot but I tried :)

I've been with this guy for about 7 months now... we just recently broke up and got back together and it's kind of to the point where it is getting serious. The sex isn't that good. I mean, it's great sex - it has meaning behind it and I love doing it. I am the first guy he has ever bottomed for and he is the first guy I have ever bottomed for. Never thought I would like it, but I've really started to like doing it. Problem is - he isn't very good. It's not that he isn't good it's the fact that he gets off way too fast. As soon as he gets inside me he cums. I'm being serious... it's that quick. Over the past few months since we've been having sex I've tried and tried to help him not get off so fast. We're to the point where I'll blow him and he will cum and then I'll fuck him for a little bit until he gets hard again so he can fuck me. This works, but he still doesn't last as long as I would like doing this. I've pretty much fallen for this guy and learned to deal with it... but he is very very insecure about it and it kind of makes the sex weird. Has anybody else had this problem or know of a solution? :)
 
Does he come quickly in all positions or just when he's in a more active "top" position?
 
Actually, its pretty common for guys who are fairly new to intercourse to ejaculate quickly. I don't know how long this lasts, though. Part of it is of course he is extremely aroused so that is a good thing. This may sound funny but he probably needs to calm down and breathing exercises work well.

Was the reason you guys broke up related to the sex? If so, seems its something you two should talk about. My previous bf was just terrible in bed. He even snored. We never talked about it and it could not last. That is a mistake I won't repeat.
 
Well, why not let him cum, have him pull out, make out for awhile, get him horny again, and then have him put it back in?

Lex
 
im sure he just enjoys the sex wayyy too much i would try different positions
 
>>>Maybe it is a kind of bordedom between you

Yeah, cumming immediately is usually a sign of boredom. :)

Lex
 
If you are okay with the situation now, then you're in a good position to help it. You need to try to help him relax. If you get worried bout it that isn't going to help him relax either.

If he comes too quickly as a top, maybe he should just bottom more. If you want the anal stimulation, try bringing in sex toys.
 
There needs to be more excitement, variety, foreplay, and spice. Try some new things and definitely discuss what's missing or what can be worked on. Don't be silent, speak your mind.
 
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