So my boyfriend and I have been together a while, but a guy he used to date keeps texting him and facebooking him. My boyfriend doesn't really respond, but this guy just won't give up. They no longer live close, so there isn't really any chance that he would see him, but it's getting annoying. I am getting to the point where I want to message his old friend (basically a fuck buddy) and tell him to back off. My boyfriend already deletes all of his posts on his facebook wall and doesn't message of him, but this guy just doesn't get it. Any advice?
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my boyfriends ex keeps contacting him, even though he keeps ignoring him
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Yeah, your boyfriend is acting like a douchebag. He should just ask the guy to cut it out if it bothers him.
Maybe the OP boyfriend thinks by ignoring the ex boyfriend he will get the hint? Although, the other guys got a point the boyfriend might need to be more direct and tell the guy to move on with his life.
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If it were me I would just mssg the guy 1 time and say, please do not contact me, I have moved on and you should also.
IDK if there ignore options on FB, and he could turn off Text on his phone for a bit and see what happens, the guy might then get the hint.
IDK if there ignore options on FB, and he could turn off Text on his phone for a bit and see what happens, the guy might then get the hint.
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I'm always a fan of being a man and talking to the person instead of ignoring or blocking them. You can't block people in real life, so why do it differently online?
Agreed. But only with real people (ie. people you know in person).
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Yes, that's reasonable.
Thanks for the advice, guys. I think I am just going to ask my boyfriend to say something as directly as possible.
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I'm kind of on the fence...
While I think your BF should 'man up', and tell the guy to take a hike *IF* he is indeed done with him, I also believe that there IS a certain amount of 'baggage' you inherit when you agree to be with someone, including their friendships with their Ex's.
I think it's a little naive and insecure to think that your BF is NEVER EVER going to run into, talk to, or have some sort of contact with people they dated from their past.
While I think your BF should 'man up', and tell the guy to take a hike *IF* he is indeed done with him, I also believe that there IS a certain amount of 'baggage' you inherit when you agree to be with someone, including their friendships with their Ex's.
I think it's a little naive and insecure to think that your BF is NEVER EVER going to run into, talk to, or have some sort of contact with people they dated from their past.