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My Contradiction...

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Below are somethings about me.

1. I want kids.
1a. Always dreamt of meeting a girl and marrying her
1b. I have also dreamt of finding a man that I spend the rest of my days with

2. I have been with:
2a. 6 women

3. I am afraid to love a man.

4. I have had sex with:
4a. 2 women (didn't feel exciting)
4b. 1 man (experimenting, only once... it felt good)

5. I am more emotionally attached and more attracted to men, but I only date women.
5a. I am closer to male friends than female ones
5b. I have only gotten completely hard looking at women, but partially hard looking at men

6. I enjoy showing men what I have, and looking at what they have.
6a. I find womens' vaginas discusting looking... (sry ladies)

Am I straight, bi, or gay??? :confused:

p.s.
Never been with a man other than the one I experimented with, that was two years ago. I never even think about it.
 
Well, judging by 4, I'd say you're probably a Kinsey 4 gay or a Kensey 3 which is bisexual. Having sex with a girl but not getting excited about it and feeling like something's missing is typical for the 4s in my experience though.

But then again, judging by 1, 3 and 6, you probably have some issues concerning being gay, as in being afraid to be one, so until you overcome those and just experiment with all of your attractions, you won't be sure. While I know how empty and pointless me trying to persuade you there's nothing scary or wrong with it would be, I have to say it - it is perfectly fine being gay. I'm a Kinsey 6, so I've never had any confusion about it, but once you get over your fears, you'll realize being gay or straight or bi or any other variety and denomination is completely unimportant compared to being true to who you are and loving yourself.
 
I think from what you described I'd guess you're gay.
 
Oh, just to add - I also want children. And I firmly plan on having them. At this day and age they can even be my own blood without me having to lie about who I am.

So, being gay doesn't really prevent you from having a family. Just makes it a little bit harder socially speaking, but that is rapidly changing.
 
Your feelings are understandable to me. They suggest gay to me,ESP. 3 and 5a. Do you think maybe 3 is because when 5a happens and you really start to get emotionally close, your feelings scare you? I believe orientation is not evidenced by what you do. It is evidenced by what you feel and your fantasies.

Also, 3 could cause 5b. Our brain is the primary sex organ.

Bottom line is you are what you are. And all the options are fine.
 
You can have a family with being gay. I am married, and have 2 beautiful children. From what it sounds like you are probably gay, but just a guess. You just need to really think hard, and figure out what you want from life, because no one can tell you that, the only person who can, is yourself. Best of luck to you.
 
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