My Fight against Post Coital Blues

[crubbed]

I've been on numerous ONSs lately (as a bottom) and I find that after the top cums, I still want more but the top is already willing to dress up and leave. I hate this. I try to 'edge' them as long as I can, but what can I say... my ass must be too hot for them LOL

It's just that if I haven't had my dosis of cock (pardon my French), I still want more and I come across as clinging, which prompts them all the more to get up and leave. I can't even cum because the whole thing makes me anxious. What should I do? Do people in the States really spend the whole night over? (hence, one night stand)

Maybe I'm not cut for ONSs. Any advice?

 

[luckynumbah7]

I've never seen or met anyone that can last a whole night. Although once in a blue moon someone else can last two hours. If you're looking for a one night stand try typing - "If you can't last at least ===== minutes, please do not respond. Looking for a lengthly encounter" or something like that. I try and find people with similar interests so we at least have a couple topics of conversation besides sex.

 

[Seasoned]

It sounds as if you've been getting "quickies" rather than a one night stand. If this is standard procedure in you're area you're either are going to have to make your wishes known in advance or try to start dating so as the guy is likely to spend the night and thus able to do it more than once.

 

[crubbed]

Thanks! That was some great advice, I already put it into practice. And it's working out pretty well

 

[Seasoned]

Great! Stay safe, buddy.

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

I've been on numerous ONSs lately (as a bottom) and I find that after the top cums, I still want more but the top is already willing to dress up and leave. I hate this. I try to 'edge' them as long as I can, but what can I say... my ass must be too hot for them LOL

It's just that if I haven't had my dosis of cock (pardon my French), I still want more and I come across as clinging, which prompts them all the more to get up and leave. I can't even cum because the whole thing makes me anxious. What should I do? Do people in the States really spend the whole night over? (hence, one night stand)

Maybe I'm not cut for ONSs. Any advice?

How long do you need to be fucked?

I've never seen or met anyone that can last a whole night. Although once in a blue moon someone else can last two hours. If you're looking for a one night stand try typing - "If you can't last at least ===== minutes, please do not respond. Looking for a lengthly encounter" or something like that. I try and find people with similar interests so we at least have a couple topics of conversation besides sex.

There are guys who can last all night, although it's usually with pauses.

It sounds as if you've been getting "quickies" rather than a one night stand. If this is standard procedure in you're area you're either are going to have to make your wishes known in advance or try to start dating so as the guy is likely to spend the night and thus able to do it more than once.

I used to do ONSs, but I prefer to go to cruisebars now. That way, I can fuck as long as I like. It might be something for you, OP.

Great! Stay safe, buddy.

This.

 

[crubbed]

How long do you need to be fucked?

Well, 1 hour is okay... 2 would be great... 3 is the best I've ever had Just more than 10 minutes...

Cruisebars- I don't think are my thing. For now...

 

[borg69unimatrix]

Try Dating instead of hooking up/ONS's.

 

[Granite]

Sounds like you need to invest in toys and Eveready / Energizer batteries vs a boyfriend. *shrug*