ok, so i met this guy on manhunt today, and I decided to call him. We talked for a good while, and he asked me to come over to his dorm on another campus. He wants to grab something to eat, then go back and watch a movie, cuddle, makeout, and see where it goes from there. This is awesome cause hes really funny and hott. Problem is, ive never been on a date, haha. shuld i bring him something??? I dont know what to do, pointers plz. I have less than a day to prepare, haha
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My First Date Ever!!--HELP!
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SilverRRCloud
I'd rather be a Sexgod:)
Nope. You don't have to take anything with you save for the lube, condoms and some good will.
On the other hand, if he is talking 'grab something to eat', you may choose to pitch in something, too. Being willing to participate always makes a great first impression.
Last but not least: take it easy and do not work your expectations too high. The dude may sound hot. His pix may look hot and well, he may be HOT. And he may be not....
Make sure that you meet up in a public place, check the vibe and pick it up from there.
Do not get focused on YOUR plans of this date. The dates can go into all kinds of directions, so take it with a pinch of salt, stay cool and cross the bridge, when you get there.
SC
On the other hand, if he is talking 'grab something to eat', you may choose to pitch in something, too. Being willing to participate always makes a great first impression.
Last but not least: take it easy and do not work your expectations too high. The dude may sound hot. His pix may look hot and well, he may be HOT. And he may be not....
Make sure that you meet up in a public place, check the vibe and pick it up from there.
Do not get focused on YOUR plans of this date. The dates can go into all kinds of directions, so take it with a pinch of salt, stay cool and cross the bridge, when you get there.
SC
G-Lexington
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* No need to bring anything but condoms, lube, and an open mind.
* Offer to pay for at least your share of the dinner.
* Have a good time. Don't spend all of dinner wondering what's gonna happen afterwards.
* Keep the conversation focused on him during dinner. Ask questions - find out more about him. Keep it friendly.
* Once you get back to his place, take it as far as you and he both want. Don't do anything you'd rather not, and don't try to pressure him into doing anything HE'd rather not.
* And, at the risk of repeating myself, have a good time.
Lex
* Offer to pay for at least your share of the dinner.
* Have a good time. Don't spend all of dinner wondering what's gonna happen afterwards.
* Keep the conversation focused on him during dinner. Ask questions - find out more about him. Keep it friendly.
* Once you get back to his place, take it as far as you and he both want. Don't do anything you'd rather not, and don't try to pressure him into doing anything HE'd rather not.
* And, at the risk of repeating myself, have a good time.
Lex
so we talked for three hours last night on the phone.... he wants to take it slow b/c he said he really likes me so far and wants to see if we get along in person so we can date. He just wants to make out and snuggle, haha so thats good for me. I really like talking to him so ill keep u guys updated
G-Lexington
Lex. Icon. Devil.
Excellent. Have a good time. That part of the advice still applies. 
Lex
Lex
Yeah I was going to say, that having sex right off the bat with someone you plan on dating, or especially for a FIRST date, isnt exactly the best choice nor the classiest...unless of course it is mutually decided that screwing is what the extent of the relationship will be about, then by all means.
But I am glad that he decided to take it slow.
Im happy for you. Be safe(hey even studs can be serial killers) and most of all have a good time and do not be nervous.
BRIAN
But I am glad that he decided to take it slow.
Im happy for you. Be safe(hey even studs can be serial killers) and most of all have a good time and do not be nervous.
BRIAN
lol, ill bring my tag and spray his eyes out if he tries to kill me, lol
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A lot of guys think you need to sleep with a guy on a first date and that's just not true. I told the first guy I went out with that he was my first male date and he was flattered. So I've always maintained that being truthful is the best way to go. Have a great time.
Hey, congratulations! Geez...when you come out, you come out! Ha..ha..!
Enjoy the date. Don't be surprised that you spend a lot of time talking when you meet. Quite honestly, I find that fulfilling my mind with good conversation can be almost (I say ALMOST) as fulfilling the little guy that peeks from between my legs! Guys who you can talk with and that you want to talk with is awesome.
While you are making out, learn what you like. By going slow, you can identify the spots that turn you on and the spots that don't. Foreplay, whether it leads to sex, is hot. I love kissing a guy and having them kiss me.
It sounds like he is pretty grounded and knows what he is looking for -- which is great. If things don't work out, so be it. Don't worry if you..um..get excited on your first date. It's natural! Enjoy it and your date!
Just let us know when you start posting the videos! Ha...ha..!
Enjoy the date. Don't be surprised that you spend a lot of time talking when you meet. Quite honestly, I find that fulfilling my mind with good conversation can be almost (I say ALMOST) as fulfilling the little guy that peeks from between my legs! Guys who you can talk with and that you want to talk with is awesome.
While you are making out, learn what you like. By going slow, you can identify the spots that turn you on and the spots that don't. Foreplay, whether it leads to sex, is hot. I love kissing a guy and having them kiss me.
It sounds like he is pretty grounded and knows what he is looking for -- which is great. If things don't work out, so be it. Don't worry if you..um..get excited on your first date. It's natural! Enjoy it and your date!
Just let us know when you start posting the videos! Ha...ha..!
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You know....My techs arent nearly as cute as you... Damn it why do i work in the valley of the vaginas...
Anyway....Congrats on your first date! I think the most important part of dating is to have fun. As the very least you'll have a new friend! Don't focus too much on "having a relationship" too soon. I know i dislike when guys come on too strong too soon. just have fun!
Hope it goes well!
Anyway....Congrats on your first date! I think the most important part of dating is to have fun. As the very least you'll have a new friend! Don't focus too much on "having a relationship" too soon. I know i dislike when guys come on too strong too soon. just have fun!
Hope it goes well!