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my first kiss

You've said yourself you want to wait. So no - don't go out to a club and kiss a total stranger. There's nothing wrong at all with waiting.

Lex
 
It would help to know more about you. In which country do you live? I get the idea from the videos you linked to that you are in a Spanish speaking country. My first kiss was with my first BF, and he was Spanish (or Latino), although he didn't speak much Spanish. Still, I have found Latin men to be more romantic, and if you are romantic, it is important to have an emotional relationship with someone you are going to kiss. I met my first BF the first time I went to a gay bar, and I happened to get lucky, but I also felt that it was fate. We lived in different cities at that time (I was visiting his), but we wrote passionate love letters every other day, since he did not have a phone.

How romantic are you? Is romanticism part of the culture where you live? I found that it is difficult to find in the U.S. (although not impossible), but I did find it easier in Mexico.
 
NOthing wrong with waiting for the right person to kiss. You will know when you are ready with the right person.
 
thanks guys and I am black with a little of everything mixed in.
oh and I live in usa but I would love to go to Catalonia and someplaces in Barcelona.
 
Thanks guys I am going to wait for my "El cor de la ciutat" moment.
Hopefully I well meet someone like Enric because he's cute and because my friends tell me I sometimes act like Max.
 
I had my first kiss when I was 19 and I waited until it was with someone I wanted to be in a relationship with, not just some one-night thing.

You're okay. :)
 
I almost got my first kiss as a joke. My friend was handcuffed (long story) and he was holding my face like he was going to beat me up while my other friend was taking our picture. Then he was still holding my face and leaned forward like he was going to kiss me. I pulled away due to WHOA-still-in-the-closet instinct and he was laughing. I still wonder if he actually would've done it if I didn't pull away. I wouldn't have minded since he's a good friend, but it would've been really weird and a very awkward first kiss while surrounded by my friends armed with cameras.

Lol, a few nights later, we were at a party and I was leaving early and my female friend kissed me goodbye on the cheek and he followed suit. It was sweet, but odd.

But yeah, definitely save that first kiss for a special someone. It's supposed to be magical and even in the movies and television its ruined for some people by some jerk who does not share the mutual feeling.

Please make it something you'll remember all your life because it was beautiful.
 
haha i remember my first kiss, was with a girl and was the worst kiss ive ever had in my life, her hair ended up in my mouth, she pulled back and licked my chin *shudders* not nice at all. Glad I had it though as I wont make them mistakes ever again, kissed quite a few lasses and its never ment anything just part of the "im straight" routine.
Kissed a guy for the first time last night and it was amazing, deffinatly worth the wait and sooo glad I didnt just kiss any guy. Was so sweet at the end of the night as well, he came to find me outside of the night club to give me a hug and that then went to kiss but couldnt decide which side we were going to go to, was one of them two people trying to get past eachother moments, he giggled and I got a quick kiss before getting into my taxi!
oh yeah and if you want your first kiss to be special wait for the right guy/girl and remember youve got hands ;)
 
Yea, im waiting for my 1st kiss to be with someone i care about so that it is specail.

Getting a bit inpatient though :cry: :-)
 
ditto........im starting to think im just a repellant...

i can't help it ;)
 
I had my first kiss with a friend i wish i also waited too for someone special. But if that special person never comes atleast i can say i had my first kiss
 
My first gay kiss was when I was 40 and he had his dick up my ass and tongue in my mouth. Lovely(!)
 
Hey you just wait as long as you want! I'm 31 years old and still waiting for my first kiss. It's gotta be special and the guy really has to love me.

I'm hoping that it goes something like this.....

 
Really, its nothing wrong with it. I had my first kiss, but it wasn't great nor proper one - so it was kind of ruined. Thankfully it wasn't full on, so I'm going to keep waiting for right guy.

I just don't feel like making out with complete stranger, but that's just me. So yeah..if you want to wait, then wait. It's up to you, you don't have to follow the suit if you don't want to ;P
 
screwnutty said:
I'm hoping that it goes something like this.....

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It's not wrong to want to wait, but hopefully you won't be disappointed. I waited for the right guy and when I did get my first kiss, it was great, but he ended up cheating on me :grrr: but yeah, you'll know when the right time is.
 
My first kiss was actually with a good lesbian friend of mine followed immediately by a woman who was my best friend at the time. I think the two of them kissed as well, but being gay I can't really recall such details. This was at a rave and we were all on ecstacy#-o I guess it was all just part of the dumb things you do as a 19 year old. I don't regret the kiss at all though. At the time, the two of them were my best friends.

My first kiss with a guy was on the dance floor of a gay bar. We actually would have gone home together, except for the fact that we had nowhere to go (both staying with friends). It was still fun dancing and groping with him on the dance floor though. I don't regret it at all. I found it special in its own way, it being my first kiss and all, even though I never saw the guy again after that night. It was just the first kiss, not the last and only.

Obviously, it's different for different people, but don't feel like your first kiss (or first blowjob or first fucking or whatever) absolutely has to be the end-all, be-all of your life. With those kinds of expectations, you're just setting yourself up for dissappointment. Explore, have a good time, surround yourself with good people whose company you enjoy and kiss one of them you like.
 
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