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my friend slept with my ex-bf

My nose itched

so i scratched it.

my ass itched

so i scratched it

my friends libido itched

my ex scratched it

my ego itched

so I scratched my friend



So, how do you spell STUPID
 
Lefty said:
My nose itched

so i scratched it.

my ass itched

so i scratched it

my friends libido itched

my ex scratched it

my ego itched

so I scratched my friend



So, how do you spell STUPID
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Hmm. One of the many things you could mean here is something I sort of agree with. Clarity, however, eludes me. Care to explain?
 
Crio,


All I was saying is that the friend and the ex were a non issue.

Briefly, keep your nose to yourself and butt out...Why scratch (lose) a friend

over something that is not a part of you (and/or) with the friend.
 
Lefty said:
Crio,

All I was saying is that the friend and the ex were a non issue.

Briefly, keep your nose to yourself and butt out...Why scratch (lose) a friend

over something that is not a part of you (and/or) with the friend.
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Then I agree.
 
Sha-Rok said:
the gay community isn't that small..
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Are you kidding? Everybody's slept with everybody else and/or their current/future/ex boyfriend.

Nobody has claim to anyone that's an ex-anything.

Now, there are nice ways and not-so-nice ways of broaching the subject, and that determines who's a good friend or not.
 
Breaking up with someone means you no longer have any right to have input on who they sleep with.

You never have any right to input on who your friends sleep with.
 
thank you guys for the comments and suggestions... you guys made some good points and i appreciate it!!
 
Lube said:
Are you kidding? Everybody's slept with everybody else and/or their current/future/ex boyfriend.
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That's one hell of an over generalization. Where do you live? I have yet to sleep with a person who knew another person I slept with. It's no way of knowing definite but I can say with some confidence that has not occurred. Like I said it's not that small for a friend to fuck with an ex of mines..that's not a friend.
 
Sha-Rok said:
That's one hell of an over generalization. Where do you live? I have yet to sleep with a person who knew another person I slept with. It's no way of knowing definite but I can say with some confidence that has not occurred. Like I said it's not that small for a friend to fuck with an ex of mines..that's not a friend.
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You're right, it is an over-generalization. It doesn't apply to everybody.

But it seems to apply to a lot of gay guys. Dare I say most?
 
I read somewhere the following Man-Rule:

If you friend asks to sleep with your ex, you must give permission. However, that doesn't preclude you from making comments like, "Man are you gonna like the way he tongues your balls."
 
some people say it's fair game cuz an ex is an ex for a reason. but STILL, of course there's really strong emotions and feelings and it will hurt to hear that he's hooking up... with your closest friend.

First off, put your idiot friend in-check. Remove him from your life, what he did was UNFORIGIVEABLE. your bf is suppose to be off-limits but he went for it. Obviously he was thinking with his dick and not his head. Hell i know some people who would BEAT the living shit out of morons like that and "put them in their place". There's a lot of idiots out there. Gotta put them in check!

Also this brings the bad stereotype to the LGBT community, mostly among guys that "gay guys fuck around too much and have drama" or "gay guys fuck around too much and can't be monogamous" (spelling?) Oh that's true alright. Ask anyone and their group of friends. People always sleepin around with friend's ex's and bfs. Fights lash out and blood's everywhere. Same old drama and problems. Happens all the time. It's a shame, really. Seems like the gay community does it more then straights (stereotypically). But as with everything, its important to look at it from all perspectives and views. All communities / minorities / groups have a good side and bad / dark side.
 
TX-Beau said:
Yeah, you have no claim on your ex anymore. Who he sleeps with is not your business. Your friend - while if it was me I'd ask first out of POLITENESS, isn't required to get your permission for who he sleeps with either. Neither of them are under any obligation to get your permission, nor do you have a right of veto. Now one would hope that you choose your friends well enough that they'd take your feelings into consideration, there's no requirement to do so.
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Exactly! Read more about polyamory. And in case of doubt, be generous. Who can resist a temptation? :->
 
Have to agree with Tx-Beau on this one. Gay or straight, I have to say I hate the "rule" that you shouldn't date a friend's ex is garbage. Once he's your ex, that means who he wants to see is no longer your concern. Your friend is also not required to ask permission to see or hook up with him. He should have told you yes, but ask permission...no
 
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