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My gaydar's going off but I'm not quite not sure

thatguygus

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So yesterday I went to a unofficial work party and a coworker that I think is cute was there. Everything was going great everybody was drinking and having fun then one guy (he's openly gay I'm still not out to co workers) suggests we all go to a gay bar. All the women want to go and my friend (who knows I'm gay) wants me to be get out there and says "I'll go Gus do YOU want to go?":mad: but I play it cool and say "meh I'll go something to do":cool:. The the guy I think is cute says, 'I've never been to a gay bar you guys really wanna go?" the ladies say yes and the topic keeps going on about who'll drive where it is etc. One of the guys friends says, "Why a gay bar let's go see some tits bro":rolleyes: at that point he seems disinterested and got quiet while before he was really adamant about going to the gay bar almost excited about going. My friends and I left shortly after and I'm not sure if they ended up going (probably not) but am I wrong to suspect anything here?

I know some guys are comfortable about their masculinity and don't freak out about things like gay bars but he seemed really eager to go plus at work I catch him staring at me and doesn't break eye contact until I do. Idk I feel like I'm reading more into it than I should considering I like him and I know that he should know I'm gay first if I'm to approach him in any way. I'm thinking maybe I should just be out and see what is reaction is. I need some outside advice what do you guys think am I out of line here or am I just driving myself crazy over analyzing the situation?
 
I can tell you to go for it, but it would be hypocritical since I find myself in similar situations a lot and I can never make myself do anything. I know how frustrating it is to have feelings for someone and be so unsure about their sexuality. Best of luck...and what the hell, go for it!
 
you should be friend with him first, maybe ask him to hang out one of these days? no need to rush.
 
or am I just driving myself crazy over analyzing the situation?
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Yes.

Like so many who post with the similar question, you are driving yourself crazy over-analyzing the situation.

If you want to get to know him better, then do it. Not through facetwitmypagespacebook, but in person.

And when you are having coffee or a bite to eat or a drink, when you start talking about yourself, don't lie about being a homo.

Then the ball is in his court.

But remember, I don't think workplace romances are healthy.
 
If at least one coworker is out and everybody is talking about going to a gay bar like it's no big deal...

Why on earth aren't you out at work?

What do you need--an invitation?
 
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