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My life in a nut shell

Then I'd say you're all set. Welcome to the rest of your life. Hope it kicks ass. :)

Lex
 
Everyone,

Just wanted to let you know, I made it here safe and sound. Took a little effort to get my pc hooked up to my brother's network. But everything is up and running now.

Thanks again for all your support.

I did tell my 16 year old about me before leaving. She was alright with it. Very understanding. And as I said earlier already knew thanks to her mother.

Kevin
 
Glad to see things are moving along!!! Congratulations on talking to you're daughter!! I have yet to tell my 12 year old boys I am scared shitless about telling them.
 
Glad your 16 year old was very understanding. Sounds like you raised her well. :-)
 
I have yet to tell my 12 year old boys I am scared shitless about telling them.

Even grade school kids know there are gay people in the world, even though they don't know what it means. Knowing that you are gay will help them cut through all the shit they hear about gay people and realize that gay people can be good and loving people. There will be confusion, because it will clash with the middle school image of gay people. But, as it's been pointed out, better they hear it from you than from someone else. Besides, there is a significant chance that one or both of them might be gay, and it could help them figure it all out.

Tell them. ASAP
 
Holy Orders and Marriage are actually very much similar. Both deal with how one will live their life in adulthood.

Actually I was preparing for ordination as a permanent deacon when I began to make my decision and face who I was. It started with a talk by a priest who came from Catholic University that created a lot of discussion in the group....he cheallenged everyone on honesty and included sexuality.

Luckily for me, my confessor is also a very good and close friend. I talked with Charlie for several hours about what I thought I was and how I was hiding. As my confessor, he could never tell anyone yet could spend time helping me through it. He is definately homosexual yet has never acted on it (and I truly believe it).

We have remained close friends. He has stopped and visited me in DC when he visits with his brother. He thinks I should become a priest...but I told him I have a problem with that celibacy thing! The catch about not being sexually active for three years before....maybe when I'm 80!
 
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