My Pussy - Fellow JUB member objects to my using that term

[magicdick]

On April 22 I was skimming through my account and saw a post to me from someone complaining about my referring to my asshole as my pussy. I make no apologies to this petty person or anyone else.

JUB is the only place where I can express my love for men and cock and balls and cum and manpussy without judgment, where I can share my desires and fantasies, and bisexual idiosyncrasies. I come to JUB to get away from guys like this poster, a pushy, insecure, small-minded person, the kind I would meet for a suck-fuck-cum session only to hightail it out of the situation. I don’t like pushy people, male or female, period.

Now, I couldn’t respond immediately as my AV software was throwing warnings and blocking much of JUB. (Since been fixed.)

If anyone knows the post I’m referring to, please point me to it. If anyone knows the poster, give him my thoughts. Or point me to him. The pleasure would be all mine.

Peace.

 

[TX-Beau]

I don't know where your post is, so I have no idea who told you that. I don't know how useful it would be to find that person anyway. People get offended on the internet; it happens to all of us. There's just no pleasing everyone, and as long as you aren't being a dick to someone else, say whatever you want.

 

[magicdick]

I don't know where your post is, so I have no idea who told you that. I don't know how useful it would be to find that person anyway. People get offended on the internet; it happens to all of us. There's just no pleasing everyone, and as long as you aren't being a dick to someone else, say whatever you want.

"People get offended on the internet..." Ain't it the truth. Apparently this person think such remarks are acceptable. I merely wanted to gently disabuse him of that notion. Thank you for your imput.

 

[KaraBulut]

The term that was used is a generational thing. The younger generation does frequently refer to men's asses as "pussies", "bussies" and other terms that reference women's anatomy. It's not intended as an insult. If you don't like having your male anatomy referred to by any particular term, you can express that opinion but it is unlikely to change the behavior of an entire generation or the internet as a whole.

 

[magicdick]

The term that was used is a generational thing. The younger generation does frequently refer to men's asses as "pussies", "bussies" and other terms that reference women's anatomy. It's not intended as an insult. If you don't like having your male anatomy referred to by any particular term, you can express that opinion but it is unlikely to change the behavior of an entire generation or the internet as a whole.

I appreciate your input. I am not of the younger generation. I was not aware of this generational thing. When I am being fucked, "pussy" is the term I use because I like to think of myself as the woman. I like to think I have a pussy. I like my lovers to take control as any hetero would with a woman and her pussy. I like being dominated as the submissive one. (Not the pejorative sense of those words.) In actuality, I am the dominant one because I've got what he wants and will do what I want to get it. But dominant-schmominant. Submissive is permissive. We're having fun. And I am aware of the utter futility of changing minds on the internet.

 

[KaraBulut]

The "-ussification" of the gay internet even caught the attention of linguists:

Rizz And 7 Other Slang Trends That Explain The Internet In 2023 | Dictionary.com

Now more than ever, there’s a firehose of slang terms flowing from TikTok vids, Twitch streams, Twitter memes, and the other outlets of the extremely online. What’s a menty b? Why are TikTokers adding -ussy to everything? What does it mean to be told to touch grass? You might be sorry you asked...

www.dictionary.com

-ussy​

What it means: Yes, it’s what you think it is: an ending extracted from the word pussy that gets added to other words like robussy (meaning “robot pussy”) or dragussy (“dragon pussy”). On social media, -ussy is also used more generally (and nonsexually) to refer to objects with holes in them (calling a calzone a pizzussy, for example) or to any object or person.

Where it comes from: Popular since at least the early 2000s and within the LGBTQ+ community, -ussy was originally used in terms like bussy (“boy pussy”) and mussy (“man pussy”). It’s very much an online thing.

Why linguists are interested: The so-called -ussification of every imaginable word on social media represents an interesting trend in slang formation. To get technical, -ussy is what’s called a combining form, which means it only gets used in combination with other word parts to form new terms. Linguists keep a close eye on trends like this. In fact, the recent convention of the American Dialect Society (ADS)—whose members include both professionals and amateurs “dedicated to the study of the English language in North America”—culminated with -ussy winning out as the society’s pick for its 2022 word of the year.

There's a whole group of Buzzfeed videos where the media outlet has male celebrities read tweets about them. Invariably, at least one of the tweets says something like, "I want him to wreck by bussy". "Bussy" being a slang term for "boy pussy" or "butt pussy".

 

[PalacePaul]

On a side note, I'm a nerd and I love this kind of discussion about words and their use.

Also note that this isn't an English-only fenomenon; it happens in Spanish, too. I have a fuckbuddy who often talks about mi coño (my pussy). I was baffled at first but now I say it in my own fantasies, too
I know it's used in French, too. The oldest use I've noticed is a video from 15-20 years ago

 

[KaraBulut]

On a side note, I'm a nerd and I love this kind of discussion about words and their use.

Also note that this isn't an English-only fenomenon; it happens in Spanish, too. I have a fuckbuddy who often talks about mi coño (my pussy). I was baffled at first but now I say it in my own fantasies, too
I know it's used in French, too. The oldest use I've noticed is a video from 15-20 years ago

Apologies in advance for the side bar that is slightly off-topic.

Interesting. I have spent a lot of time in different cultures and I am always fascinated by how different slang words are used in different ways. For example, I first heard "¡coño!" being used by Cubans, before I knew what it actually meant, in the way that American English speakers use "fuck!" or "shit!". Cubans use "concha" for pussy, as in "¡concha tu madre!".

For some reason, Mexican Spanish speakers are more inclined to use slang words for penis instead of vagina. Even the slang for "penis" varies. "Pito" is used in Mexico (something that one blows?). In South America, I hear "polla" used but when I used this with a Cuban friend, she looked at me wondering why I was talking about a hen.

As for gay slang, I don't have as much opportunity to hear it in public, but I do hear the use of feminine terms "¡loca puta!" by gay men directed toward other gay men, along with "fleto" and "cola". Cubans use "pajaro". Among construction workers from Latin American countries, I've also heard, "mayate" and "joto" and of course, "puto". In Latin America, there's funny phrases like "vuelta el paraguas" that are used with a snicker. "Maricón" seems to be universal.

What I haven't heard yet is a Spanish equivalent of "bussy". There's a lot of "Spanglish" on the internet, so they may just use "bussy"?

 

[unloadonme]

I'd never heard "bussy" before reading this thread. Is it restricted to American English? I don't think I'll be adding it to my vocabulary either way. I prefer good old Anglo Saxon!

 

[KaraBulut]

A few Brits in this compilation.

Enjoy.

 

[magicdick]

I'd never heard "bussy" before reading this thread. Is it restricted to American English? I don't think I'll be adding it to my vocabulary either way. I prefer good old Anglo Saxon!

Hey, Birmingham. Newburyport (USA) here. I'm with you on this. Anglo-Saxon gave English speakers some of their most forceful and impressive words.

 

[BiBtm64]

On April 22 I was skimming through my account and saw a post to me from someone complaining about my referring to my asshole as my pussy. I make no apologies to this petty person or anyone else.

JUB is the only place where I can express my love for men and cock and balls and cum and manpussy without judgment, where I can share my desires and fantasies, and bisexual idiosyncrasies. I come to JUB to get away from guys like this poster, a pushy, insecure, small-minded person, the kind I would meet for a suck-fuck-cum session only to hightail it out of the situation. I don’t like pushy people, male or female, period.

Now, I couldn’t respond immediately as my AV software was throwing warnings and blocking much of JUB. (Since been fixed.)

If anyone knows the post I’m referring to, please point me to it. If anyone knows the poster, give him my thoughts. Or point me to him. The pleasure would be all mine.

Peace.

Your pussy is your sanctuary, your hol(e)y place where cocks go to worship. Call it what you will, and good for you.

 

[magicdick]

Your pussy is your sanctuary, your hol(e)y place where cocks go to worship. Call it what you will, and good for you.

Well said, baby. Creative metaphor. Great command of the English language, often lacking in many posts. Thank you.