my rude a*& roommate

[xi3100]

omg where do i begin he is such an asshole i mean he does things without even asking like he run the place and the thing that gets me mad my other roommates do what he says is like they are his bitch.
all this started when my bf bought me a dvd show series and i started to watch it, it then progressed when i came back to my place from class and saw him watching my dvd. it progressed until my bf got mad at me and told me how i was letting him see my dvd when i haven’t watched it. so that night i addressed the issue and every since that day we haven’t talked as we use to. (this happen about a week ago)
today we went to the market and when my roommate, my other roommate and i got ready to take the stuff back to our place i asked if he could hold a bag because he was holding stuff that was being handed to him. he then said i aint your bitch get your own shit man and i told him who said you were my bitch.
I swear he is a joke. i do not like him and i dont know what to do with him. He is fake he only does things that benefit him. i need to be studying for this test today but i cant stop thinking about this. what is going on ?

 

[xi3100]

ok now im sad

 

[Atomw7]

My roommate sucks too!! Not my ex, but my other roommate. He drink my ex's energy drinks (He had a huge case of about 50 Monster Energy drink he got free from his work), drank 1/2 of our (my ex and I sometimes split buying things) orange juice, oatmeal, and other things! Thank god it was mostly my ex's stuff because I'll go off on him.

It's not that he just eats/drinks what isn't his, but he also doesn't clean. We have to ask him to clean up after his friends come over, also he does not empty the dishwasher and other general stuff. There's old moldy crap in our fridge that is his and he does not clean it out. Ugh, that's just a small list. Thank god I'm moving in a month!

 

[xi3100]

yea i miss my old roommate we had no problems, we use to share food and everything it was koo. but this dude is different he drinks all the beer my roommate bought and he be acting like nothing ( i dont drink the beer). 3 more month and my contract ends and i can't wait . y r people so rude. makes me mad.

 

[USEDCAR]

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Why can't you and your boyfriend get an apartment together?


Also note this is a no flame zone

 

[M4P]

Also note this is a no flame zone

Ahem and thank you

 

[drhladnjak]

Fighting over the viewing of a DVD strikes me as petty. It sounds like there's some more serious friction going on between the two of you that's just resurfaced because of this one minor incident.

You need to be direct and you may need to look for another roommate. From the sound of the situation, I'm guessing you're fairly young so hopefully it won't be too much trouble to find somebody else. The most important quality a roommate can have is that you get along with him or her. Being friends, sharing common interests, etc. are really not very important for being able to live civilly with somebody else. I find that a laid back roommate also works better for me because such people usually don't start as much drama.

 

[xi3100]

i would rather fight than take his words. i just hope i don't explode on him cuz i have a little anger problem. well i guess if he keeps pushing he will be getting the unexpected.
- thinking happy thoughts

 

[brian1052000]

Maybe he is trying to piss you off because he is crushing on you...or maybe he doesn't like you at all. Either way, I would be a complete asshole to him also. Fight fire with fire and burn that bitch. (not literally) : )

 

[walkabout]

^ i agree..he might have a crush on you so he is just taking the piss. To reduce any further insulting behavior I reckon you should sit down and have a talk

I live with 7 other people..and thankgod all of them are so sweet and helping

 

[xi3100]

Maybe he is trying to piss you off because he is crushing on you...or maybe he doesn't like you at all. Either way, I would be a complete asshole to him also. Fight fire with fire and burn that bitch. (not literally) : )

lol, i love it "Fight fire with fire and burn that bitch. (not literally)" thatz a myspace quote.

 

[xi3100]

i feel ya but we already talked about rules and all... we even have them posted up on the fridge... but its his attidude that change, from koo layback to thinking he run the place...

 

[Eternaldarkness]

solution one: change roomate or move in with a different.

solution two: ignore him, as he's an asshole. There is nothing you can do to change that.

solution three: (which I think is the best) In order for two person to get along, both must address his/her own wrongfullness. Have a chat and see how each other's feelings toward one another are. Maybe you've done something thats pissing him off that is making him doing things to piss you off.

If that doesn't help. Solution one is better.

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>i feel ya but we already talked about rules and all... we even have them posted up on the fridge... but its his attidude that change, from koo layback to thinking he run the place...

He thinks he can run the place because he CAN run the place. You let him run the place. Either kick him out, or kick yourself out - find someone better to live with.

Lex