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My sexuality is all over the place

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Lately I have felt really confused about my sexuality. I find myself getting nervous like a 5 year old boy with a crush when I'm around an attractive girl and have a raging hard-on at the site of my friends semi hard dick popping up in his shorts, I'm just confused. I want to accept myself for who I am and one day be able to tell my loved ones who I really am, sexually, and for 10 years now and I am tired of waiting. I know it takes time but my personality is very impatient and always has been. Idk if it's being scared to come out due to societies twisted thoughts towards gay people or my friends sly comments about gay people that have me confused but I just want a solid answer for myself so I can start living a sexual life lol. I feel like I'm missing out on so much because of this problem and as a 20 year old Junior in college, this is the perfect time for me to explore. I can't even find gay friends to hang out with because the ones at my school are way to feminine to me and I am not so that serves no purpose. If I can just find a bi or gay masculine or semi masculine guy to befriend to help me along the way at school I will be a very happy man...

What are your thoughts?
 
Just go with who you are attracted to and don't worry about society. If you like a girl, pursue it. If you want a guy, then go ahead. Don't pigeonhole yourself.
 
If you want to find guys into guys, you have to first befriend with openly gays. Not that you have to have sex with them, they may know other less feminine gays around the area that may be more of your type. Join your local gay organizations would be a start as well.
 
to be honest i dont quite get what exactly youre confused about.

but dont be so judgmental towards fem guys. you dont have to be attracted to them, but by shutting them off completely from the start, even as friends, youre just limiting yourself (and also being a bit of a dick).
 
Thanks for the responses. Of course I don't mean to offend anyone who is feminine but that's my opinion. Your right about not limiting myself
 
Sexuality is all about "being all over the place". It doesn't have to so stringent. Your downfall is trying to have it be black and white and it isn't.

Labels are the downfall of society.
 
texan_slant said:
Sexuality is all about "being all over the place". It doesn't have to so stringent. Your downfall is trying to have it be black and white and it isn't.

Labels are the downfall of society.
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I agree. Labels are what messed me up mentally for years and now I am trying to stray away from them without feeling guilty about it.
 
I'm working out the same issues. Stay out of your head and just go with what your body is telling you. It's tough, but your body knows what it wants! About the guilt, it comes from caring about what other people think about your sexuality. It's yours to explore nobody elses so just be free in that. Don't care what others think!

Good luck. Have fun fooling around with people...safely! Cheers!
 
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