My Straight Friend & I Were Wrestling...

[babyboy225]

Ok, yesterday, My straight friend and I were wrestling. He doesn't know im bi or whatever so we were wrestling and I looked at his crotch and he was ROCK HARD. So, my question is....Can a straight man get excited from wrestling with another man? Is my friend actually bi? Should I ask him?

 

[USEDCAR]

I would keep play wresting with him

Maybe hes bi or not?

does he touch you or anything?

 

[babyboy225]

I would keep play wresting with him

Maybe hes bi or not?

does he touch you or anything?

Yes, he touches me, we touch each other like when we pick one another up for a move or something. He's always trying to power bomb me...I don't know if you're familiar with wrestling but that's a movie when someone puts your head between their legs pick you up where your crotch is basically in their face than slam you down on the mat/floor....It's a pretty gay move, lol

 

[babyboy225]

Sounds like he's bi, only one way to find out!!!

Ask him, right?

 

[Inwood]

Ask him, right?

Or bury your face in his crotch nice and good the next time he power bombs you.

 

[lamb-on-easter]

haha. i think its possible that it means nothing. have you thought about telling him your "bi or whatever?" maybe he'll start asking you questions...how do you know? whats it like? is it emotional?

if he asked more questions than he says any comments about not having a problem with it/or vice versa...

then maybe theres something hes not telling you.........

 

[vaboy90]

Two questions does he try to power bomb you when he's sporting a hard on? Which would put his hard cock right in your face. If so skip the next question and go straight to sex with him, lol. And what do you mean by "Yes he touches me"? Is it in a sexual way, playful way or what a jock does with another jock? If you answer these questions honestly I think you'll know what you should do.

Don't be to quick to ask or make a move, especially if he's a friend you want to keep. If nothing else do what usedcar said keep playing and see what, if anything, happens. If he's bi, gay or whatever he'll tell you when he's ready to. Trying to make it happen sooner than he's comfortable with will only end up costing you his friendship.

 

[KnightRider]

Nice!!! At least I think it is, if you are into this guy. If you are and he gets obviously hard when wrestling, do the same! There is so much you can do while wrestling around with a guy trying to make it seem innocent but at the same time...not. If he accuses you of going too far, you can always save face with these situations, because he's starting it. Please let us know what happens either way, I like wrestling stories

 

[curiousinmotown2]

I agree with Yummers. You could lose a friend and gain an ass kicking if you assume he's gay or bi just because he gets a hard on while wrestling around.

If you really want to try something, subtly bring it up. Jokingly is probably the best way to do so. If he's against the idea, just say you were kidding. If he's interested, he'll take the opportunity.

 

[Raincoat Massacre]

With me, anything going on down there gets me going. It gets really frustrating....GRRRRR

 

[tizio38]

Ok, yesterday, My straight friend and I were wrestling. He doesn't know im bi or whatever so we were wrestling and I looked at his crotch and he was ROCK HARD. So, my question is....Can a straight man get excited from wrestling with another man? Is my friend actually bi? Should I ask him?

Maybe, once you wrestle again (seems like you must, everyone says so! lol) make sure you get hard, if you don't already.

Then when you guys take a break, or end it, you realize how thirsty you are.
Thats when you chug a water bottle stretching out a litthe as you hold it above your head, making sure he can see your bulge.

Then see what he does and maybe apply what others said. But use your own judgment too

 

[Ninjitsu]

So, my question is....Can a straight man get excited from wrestling with another man?

Is it possible that he got a hard-on from wrestling without being gay or bi? Yes. A lot of guys get aroused by many forms of power-physical activity. I remember when I learned to do a basic karate kata for the first time, it moved a fair amount after doing the whole kata at full pace. Not really a full-fledged erection, though. But the power from the and motion from the kata felt good, and I felt like a real man. It's an awesome feeling.

And I've heard fighter pilots get aroused sometimes in combat training flights.

So possible? Yes. Likely? I'm thinking maybe not. I know that if I were wrestling or sparing with my friend, and I developed a full-fledged hard-on, I'd be pretty embarrassed and probably stop. But that's just me.

Is my friend actually bi? Should I ask him?

That depends if you want to pursue the relationship to the next level. If you're just curious and not interested in that, it'll probably be better to wait for him to come out on his own accord rather than confronting him.

 

[sammyae]

keep wrestling maybe he might make a move on you.

 

[Singularity]

When will straight guys finally realize that wrestling is simply foreplay?

*sigh*

 

[wanderer]

my straight friend (who makes out with his girlfriend in front of me), wanted to show me some wrestling moves. he also told me it is a common thing for a guy to have a hardon, and you can see it clearly through the singlets they wear during competition. the ref just calls a break, because they dont usually allow a match when one has a hard on.

from what i have been told, and by knowing my friend, wrestling is a respectable, gentlemans sport, so even if there is hard ons between each other, they recognize its just that, a hard on. nothing more.

when my friend was showing me his moves (which he doesnt know im bi or anything), he did a number of them on me, and then instructed me on how to do them on him. mind you, he was a regional champion, so imagine the body.... he is laying there flat, and tells me to move up and put my knee below his crotch, then put my chest to his chest, then put my arms around his arm and the back of his head, and then try to hold on to keep him from turning side to side. i could not believe what i was being told to do. this kind of stuff went on while his girlfriend was passed out in the corner....LOL then when we were finally done, we were both sweating. and he strips down to shorts, and i was on my way to get a dry shirt, when he asks where i was going. i said to get a change of clothes. he says "wait, i have no problem hanging out shirtless for a while." his shirt also comes off everytime we are in his room.

you might say he is trying to seduce me, or for me to go for it. but all i want to say is that my friendship with him is not worth gambling on some impulse. he is very nice, respectful, and playful to be around. i will just keep enjoying the view, feels, because it must just be his personality, and not a hint to "come grab my cock and get it on." i cant wait for the next wrestling match though.

 

[pinoy-pride]

well, this particular situation I've never experienced but lve read about the 'homoerotic' aspects of brazilian jui-jitsu, grappling, mixed martial arts, UFC and WEC and from both straight and gay points of view, it seems that the guys simply get aroused by certain moves and that they think nothing of it, a website that looks at it from the gay point of view is matbattle.com, check it out, but next time, when he happens to get hard, playfully point it out and say something jokingly clever like, 'god, I know I'm hot, but gimme a break dude, you've got a boner'

 

[wanderer]

^^ LOL, thats funny, and that is probably the best way to go about pointing it out. i love it. i will keep that one in mind should anything happen in my own situation.

 

[Fucker29]

Or bury your face in his crotch nice and good the next time he power bombs you.

Yep, and then power blow him.

 

[ELAINE]

This is so sexy. I can't help it, it just is. I'd let my mouth brush against it, in that move, and pretend it was an accident, but more then once.....hahaha.....

 

[sammyae]

he could also be thinking of a girl?