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My untamed rectum just won't let me win!

like ^ says, eat less fatty stuff. Your poop won't be so "creamy" (see other thread somewhere on JUB), and once you've vacated your bowels, try giving yourseld a warm water enema. (see other threads). Once you've cleaned your back passage, you can feel even more relaxed to get on with the business...
 
hehehe...keep in mind that the sort of natural movement in that particular oriface is outward...so things put in there will kind of naturally come out (well, actually things can get sucked in there thats why you should always have a flange of some kind on your toys). clean yourself and make sure your guy knows you havent really been fucked before. there will likely be a little smell and sometimes some stuff. If he has doen this before he will know that though. be patient. lol..if he is big you are going to feel a littel suction in your ass as he moves inand out that can be a little disconcerting. Just keep practicing. You will have a voracious untamed rectum in no time lol.
 
Well, let's face it, the butt was designed to be an exit-only. It will resist. When you're doing that, don't cram things in there all at once - put it in partially and give your behind time to relax and get used to the idea that what's in there is there to stay for a while. Eventually your muscles will open up a little bit and then you can proceed with pushing it in further. Maybe try playing around the outside just a little bit first before even trying to go in. And use lube!

Whatever the case, your ass is gonna rebel. Whatever goes in there, it's going to want to push it back out. So if it comes out, then let it. Then try again.

This helps too and rather than try and explain it, I'll quote it from an article...

They should, as with penis penetration, make a point of relaxing as much as they can. Hopefully they did relieve themselves shortly before cleaning for this, so they should be able to relax a lot without fear of any accidents. In fact, a good way to ensure relaxing enough to allow entrance is to make what feels like a slight pushing motion, as if having a BM. Not a real pushing motion; much of the basic BM action is actually just a relaxing of the muscles in that area, and the internal intestinal pressure is what actually pushes the waste out. If they can comfortably isolate that relaxing motion from real pushing, they're almost sure to be able to relax enough for almost any kind of penetration.

And if you can, before you're with your guy, go to the bathroom.
 
Try and relax ... shit happens !! if your going to have anal sex it will happen once in a while ... and if your guy is experianced he will know this .
 
scatterheart said:
I want nothing more than to be slammed by my big hunky guy, but I don't want shit to come with every orgasm. :(
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Well, no, nobody wants that. But if he's an experienced top, then *IF* it does happen, I'm sure he'll understand.

I've been lucky so far, nothing like that has ever happened to me. But then I've only gone "all the way" with two guys and one of them it was only once. The other guy was a longtime relationship that I was in and even still we didn't fuck every single time we had sex. So it's not like I'm some bigtime sex god that knows everything there is to know :rolleyes:

But I've done it enough to know what's comfy and what's not. And if ya REALLY wanna drive yourself nuts, get one of those curved "G-spot" vibes. Holy moly, that's awesome.
 
hehe...usually the g-spot is right in the top...well if you are laying on your back and kinda crook your finger you can kinda feel it with the pads (scraping it with nails would not be fun) Youre kinda short so it shouldnt be way up in there or anything. [sometimes shorter penises feel REALLY good because they are more likely to rub the prostate/gspot than big ones - big ones are nice for the stretch and that wierd suctioning feeling]
 
scatterheart said:
See that's the part that scares me. I think I finally found my spot yesterday in my exploits, cause I was stretching and prodding a bit, and then it really started to feel great... and then... the craptastic reaction #-o
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That's okay, just try again. It's really awesome, finding that spot. If my prostate is stimulated long enough, I can come without even touching myself.

And that's not too un-typical, really. I've heard some guys can have an orgasm with intercourse alone without penile stimulation.

Criminy, I sound like a f'ing sex therapist, lmao.

I'm just trying to be blunt without being crude ;)

But yes, I can have an orgasm with prostate stimulation alone, although once the orgasm starts, it always feels better to grab ahold and finish it off. But the prostate stimulation can bring it on. It's very intense. If you're like me, you're gonna need to put a pillow over your face, lol.

(I have 2 roommates and don't always get that 'alone' time and I'm a moaner)
 
scatterheart said:
See that's the part that scares me. I think I finally found my spot yesterday in my exploits, cause I was stretching and prodding a bit, and then it really started to feel great... and then... the craptastic reaction #-o
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I wouldn't worry really.

IMO, prostate stimulation is probably the great joy of being a bottom. Just relax and enjoy it!
 
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