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When someone marks their sexual orientation as “NOT SURE” on their myspace profile, are they gay, bi, or what?

Is this is a way of hiding their real sexuality, being in the closet?
 
i had that "not sure" on for a bit but that was to hide it from my bro so he wouldnt know about it. but not it says gay on mine and i really dont care if he see it not now

some are hiding for they are scared and some jsut dont care about it u know?
 
mgboy2001 said:
When someone marks their sexual orientation as “NOT SURE” on their myspace profile, are they gay, bi, or what?

Is this is a way of hiding their real sexuality, being in the closet?
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i know some straighish guys that put that in... its often because they do get attracted to men and women but at not sure which they like more or if they like either..... sometimes they aren't sure what they are.... though it is a way to stay in the closet...
 
I'd say that having no answer at all would be a good indication of being gay and not wanting anyone to know. That's what I did, along with a friend of mine.
 
I left my question unanswered so it doesn't appear at all in my profile...

Seeing as I am not out... and don't really want to lie...
 
I would see it as a big red flag: Do Not Enter! I mean, perhaps he just isn't sure how he feels about his sexuality, maybe he hasn't figured out if he's bi-but-mostly-gay or straight-but-kinda-curious or any of the other possibilities; maybe he's just being coy about it hoping to draw some homo-turner girls or flirty guys, maybe he just doesn't want to say what he is but doesn't want to really lie about it, either.

But any of the above make a young man unsuitable for dating material, in my opinion. Whatever else he "really" is, he's really confused.

I am not a tour-guide, sweetie. Call me back when you're sure.
 
I left the myspace question unanswered too.
Am out to my jub friends and my profile here states GAY.
Myspace if for the general population and lot's of guys don't want to out themselves there.

Oh, one more thing. Among the many friends I've met on jub there were three that stated in their profile 'bi'. That is how they started but once they became more accepting of themselves they've all changed it to gay.
Often just takes some of us more time man.
lol
 
I see the ones that say "no answer" and I generally think that they're either not sure or not willing to tell the whole world (it is their business, after all). It's not an issue for me.
 
I think that they sometimes do it to get more friends....so that if the person looking at it is straight, then they will assume that they are straight, and visa versa.

Sometimes, they just don't want people to know because they are not completely out.

Sometimes they don't want to admit it to themselves.

I know a 21 year old guy that loves to get it....ummm...up his backside....:sex: ...but he tells himself and other people that he is totally straight and that gays are sick....hmmm....denial...denial...denial... his myspace page says that he is straight.


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