Hello everyones
I am having problems with my urinary tract it is causing much stress because I cannot keep a handle of it.
When I came back to United States last time I had serious pain in my side the doctors said it is kidney stones I had scans I took medicines they passed eventually but in 4 years they return occassionally it is debilitating truly.
Well three months back in South America I had severe pain I went to hospital they said kidney stones but also other problems go to a specialist immediately however I had to wait until I came back to United States.
Well I found out I have lesions on my kidneys and swollen lymphatic glands in my back as well as high ESR sedimentation rate and kidney stones also it is not just kidney stones. I feel fevered and weak much of all the time.
The doctors are trying as to figure out as to what is happening. I have confidence in them they just take their time.
In the meantimes I have pains in my penis my urine smells strong I am weak and ill most of the time. I don't have the zest of life I just lie in pain or fatigue most days. My boyfriend left me 2+ years ago because my condition of deterioration and I don't blame him. I cannot have sex without exhaustion or pain.
I think I am depressed of that but I am in pain and weak most of the time anyway and I keep giving up on psychology because physical seems like it is falling apart faster so whats the point putting on icing if the cake can't hold itself together is how I look at it.
My whole life is my job I work nights so it is usually quiet when I am in pain I can often get by without too many people knowing.
I am wanting to hear other guys who dealed with this same issues. What is your advise for keeping a positive outlook. I am in my early 40s but I feel like I might as well be 80 some days.
Thank you.
I am having problems with my urinary tract it is causing much stress because I cannot keep a handle of it.
When I came back to United States last time I had serious pain in my side the doctors said it is kidney stones I had scans I took medicines they passed eventually but in 4 years they return occassionally it is debilitating truly.
Well three months back in South America I had severe pain I went to hospital they said kidney stones but also other problems go to a specialist immediately however I had to wait until I came back to United States.
Well I found out I have lesions on my kidneys and swollen lymphatic glands in my back as well as high ESR sedimentation rate and kidney stones also it is not just kidney stones. I feel fevered and weak much of all the time.
The doctors are trying as to figure out as to what is happening. I have confidence in them they just take their time.
In the meantimes I have pains in my penis my urine smells strong I am weak and ill most of the time. I don't have the zest of life I just lie in pain or fatigue most days. My boyfriend left me 2+ years ago because my condition of deterioration and I don't blame him. I cannot have sex without exhaustion or pain.
I think I am depressed of that but I am in pain and weak most of the time anyway and I keep giving up on psychology because physical seems like it is falling apart faster so whats the point putting on icing if the cake can't hold itself together is how I look at it.
My whole life is my job I work nights so it is usually quiet when I am in pain I can often get by without too many people knowing.
I am wanting to hear other guys who dealed with this same issues. What is your advise for keeping a positive outlook. I am in my early 40s but I feel like I might as well be 80 some days.
Thank you.

















