Need advice, guys!

[LatinCoffee]

So I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months going on 5. We both get along and enjoy each other's company. We chat about everything and we have so much in common. Both of our moms were our best friends and have passed. I think this one thing is holding us together.

I know that no one is perfect. We just have a weird boyfriend relationship & I have brought up my worries/issues about our relationship to him, multiple times.

We have only had sex once and have messed around in almost 5 months being together. I have asked him if he is sexually attracted to me and if not--it's okay we can be friends. But he insists that he's happy and in love with me.

I have not really had a sexual attraction to him due to the fact that he has breath issues and is always pooping. I know we all poop but he is constantly pooping. I have tried getting sexual with him but just knowing this...backs me up and has made me not want to even have sex with him.

He has introduced me to his dad, friends and some family members which has made me believe he's taking me seriously.

I know all this information is all over the place but I don't know what to do. He's a sweetheart.

What would you do?

 

[KaraBulut]

...What would you do?

Call it what it is: a close friendship.

Then figure out what you want in a boyfriend and start looking for it.

Why? Because he's not going to change and he's not going to give you the relationship you want.

 

[LatinCoffee]

Call it what it is: a close friendship.

Then figure out what you want in a boyfriend and start looking for it.

Why? Because he's not going to change and he's not going to give you the relationship you want.

Thanks for your advice, @KaraBulut

 

[Hidden Element]

You stated that he is in love with you but are you with him? Having read your story if you are then i am sure this can be worked through, but if your not then as the above post pointed out this may just be a freindship.
If you are however in love and want to work at this maybe talk to him. Before sex maybe shower together and brush teeth. Anal douching will also help clean out down bellow, however if hes eatting a good diet then this is quite possible not even needed.

 

[TX-Beau]

PSA, your top appreciates consideration.

 

[LatinCoffee]

I stayed in this 'friendship-like' relationship for 9 months and broke it off a few months ago. I'm happy and at peace. Thanks all for your advice.

 

[USEDCAR]

I was in something similar like this for almost a year it started out great until he started hanging out with an older lady. He did things behind my back with her and we parted ways.

I am glad you broke it off and I hope you find the man of your dreams.

 

[LatinCoffee]

I was in something similar like this for almost a year it started out great until he started hanging out with an older lady. He did things behind my back with her and we parted ways.

I am glad you broke it off and I hope you find the man of your dreams.

Sorry to hear that your ex was sneaking around. Glad that you parted ways. Thanks! I also hope that you find the man of your dreams

 

[KaraBulut]

I stayed in this 'friendship-like' relationship for 9 months and broke it off a few months ago. I'm happy and at peace. Thanks all for your advice.

So, did both the friendship and the "relationship" end at the same time?