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Need Help: I dont want to seem to needy

tbtmo02

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Basically me and this guy hooked up once and had a really fun time. In the following weeks i hit him up three times and he only replied once saying he couldnt at the moment.

About an hour ago he texted me wanting to hook up. I want to but i dont want him to think I am just goign to suck his dick whenever he wants it. So should I do it or not?
 
That depends on whether you established the relationship as no-strings or not. Also, when someone doesn't take the time to reply to you, it is, at the very least, a sign of poor social skills, unless you were having a one-night stand and you established that the first time.
 
I would go if you find him hot and like sucking his dick.. If not, then don't go.. Im an "on call" cocksucker for a few guys, but that was established at the beginning of our relationships. Nothing wrong with that.
 
What are you expecting from a booty call?

As long as you're getting off and have zero expectations, then you should go for it.
 
Perhaps something more to your liking will develop from this. But if you say no, it is over. Give it at least this chance.
 
well i texted him back and he didnt text back so yeah kinda dont really care. its just he made it seem like it would be a regular thing.
 
He's probably hitting up guys all the time and you've been waiting for him. It also sounds like you'd like this to be more regular even if it's just sex. If you need a level playing field in order not to feel used, he may not be the guy for you.
 
UPDATE: I hit the guy up a few more times and he never responded so I moved on. I just met a guy tonight and we had a fun time and he explicitly said he wanted to see me again. So no worries
 
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