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Need help learning kinky shit to say during sex

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My last bf was always asking me to talk dirty during sex and especially when he was blowing me. The problem is that I could never think of what the fuck to say and I always thought that if I did say too much, it would sound stupid and then I wouldn't get it out of my head and I would feel like a jackass. Well, now that I have broken up with him, I really want to start doing it, and otherwise expand my sex prowess.

Basically, I want to be verbally aggressive and learn ways of talking kinky shit while I am getting my dick sucked." I am assuming that I could watch a porno that is a good example of this. Anyone know of one, or of another way to learn this better?
 
This is an individual thing. While some guys might love it, others might not. My guess is that your boyfriend wanted you to be aggressive, ordering him around, teasing him and making him beg for it. It's important to communicate with a partner. As far as sounding stupid, there is a huge difference when a person is or is not horny.
 
you hear things in porno like - yeah, yeah, suck that dick or aaaah, eat my ass - but - that may not do much for a lot of us. assuming even that those are kinky comments
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Suck it, boy. That's what you are made for.Your mouth is the sweetest vagina. Your lips the sweetest labia. Your stubble is the niciest vagina hair ever. Lick my balls. Lick it all. Lick the All and Everything, the Alpha and Omega. Worship with your mouth. Keep it open. Receive. Be thankfull. Pray.
 
I had a really hot fuck buddy who would make it quite clear that when we were behind the bedroom door I stopped being an equal partner and merely was two fuckholes for him to use at his will. When giving him a bj he would say things like "finally your using your mouth for something useful". Of course this totally played up to my love of degradation, and would make me even hornier than i was before.
 
Anyone know of one, or of another way to learn this better?

Take an acting improv class. Seriously.

Also it helps if you do ask and answer, because then he'll answer your questions which will help you think of more.

"You want my dick in your mouth? You want to suck me? How bad do you want it? Doesn't look like you want it bad enough. You do? How bad? Open your mouth and let me see. I didn't hear you say please. You better show me how much you want my cock. You want me to fuck your boypussy when I'm done fucking your face? Did I say you could take my cock out of your mouth? Put it back in there and suck it good. Come on, take it all down now, show me what a whore you are. Show me how bad you need that cock. Look into my eyes while you're sucking me. Damn I knew you needed it. Fuck that's nice. Go slower now boy, don't be in such a hurry. Don't be greedy boy. Are you a greedy whore? That's because you need it bad, don't you? You needed my cock, didn't you?"

Like that.
 
Take an acting improv class. Seriously.

Also it helps if you do ask and answer, because then he'll answer your questions which will help you think of more.

"You want my dick in your mouth? You want to suck me? How bad do you want it? Doesn't look like you want it bad enough. You do? How bad? Open your mouth and let me see. I didn't hear you say please. You better show me how much you want my cock. You want me to fuck your boypussy when I'm done fucking your face? Did I say you could take my cock out of your mouth? Put it back in there and suck it good. Come on, take it all down now, show me what a whore you are. Show me how bad you need that cock. Look into my eyes while you're sucking me. Damn I knew you needed it. Fuck that's nice. Go slower now boy, don't be in such a hurry. Don't be greedy boy. Are you a greedy whore? That's because you need it bad, don't you? You needed my cock, didn't you?"

Like that.

Exactly

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=218103&highlight=verbal

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=239915
 
In my opinion, just let it come along with the sex. If its good sex, you will think of something to say. But some people like to start out with kinky stuff, which in that case im with you on the help part :).

One thing I hate though, is guys who don't talk during sex when both are into it and especially guys who don't even moan while they are cumming.
 
Personally - just say what comes naturally to your head. Also - if it sounds like the script to a porno - you are doing it all wrong. It should be genuinely from you and sexy and fun.
 
Keep it simple. dont over think it. try masturbating on your own and throw in some grunts and fuck yeahs if your having a hard time getting verbal. I always think its fun to go with the daddy/boy thing if that works in your situation. But do know your roll; if your a top say more submissive things like your your my little bitch bottom or im gonna fuck you so hard your my boy... but then again if you are a top i doubt you'd be looking for advice...

If your a bottom let your top know there ON TOP. fuck me hard. i want you in me. i want your load . i love your hot cock. In the heat of the moment none of this sounds so stupid. your having sex, its not poetry. and i really dont think its a matter of whats being said, its simply that something needs to be said. thoughtless in the moment sex talk. you wont remember any of it 20 minutes later... 20 seconds later for that matter. fuck on.
 
OH!! i forgot the most important part!! never compare any part of a man to a vagina. im gay i dont like the thought of one any where near me at ANY time what makes you think i want to hear about it during sex ???

...and dont worry the more you do it the more naturaly it'll come
 
never compare any part of a man to a vagina

Some guys who like dirty talk really get into having their bunghole called a "mancunt" or "boypussy" etc.

Always play to the audience.
 
OH!! i forgot the most important part!! never compare any part of a man to a vagina. im gay i dont like the thought of one any where near me at ANY time what makes you think i want to hear about it during sex ???

...and dont worry the more you do it the more naturaly it'll come

Exactly as soon as you use the word vagina in dirty talk, you see the guy watching up wondering what is happening. I have to admit I have done it a few times only to see the guy watch up wondering.
 
I hate, hate the word boypussy.. never heard anyone say man cunt to me before. But I remember a couple of guys saying boypussy. Lets just say, the sex stopped there haha. Don't say fem things during sex. Everytime a guy says something fem to me, its a turn off and the sex is just bad..
 
OH!! i forgot the most important part!! never compare any part of a man to a vagina. im gay i dont like the thought of one any where near me at ANY time what makes you think i want to hear about it during sex ???

...and dont worry the more you do it the more naturaly it'll come

I LAUGHED MY FUCKING ASS OFF READING THIS - WELL SAID!!
(and thanks for the first lol of the day!)
 
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