Need help

[Yuyyuu]

My bf cheated but i still love him what shouldn't i do

 

[KaraBulut]

Well, love isn't enough.

He'll cheat again.

Starting with those assumptions, you have to make a choice: are you willing to live in an open relationship or is monogamy more important to you than your current relationship?

You need to do what is best for you and your mental health.

 

[Yuyyuu]

Well, love isn't enough.

He'll cheat again.

Starting with those assumptions, you have to make a choice: are you willing to live in an open relationship or is monogamy more important to you than your current relationship?

You need to do what is best for you and your mental health.

ye ik but i love him scared i wont find another

 

[TX-Beau]

OK, what "shouldn't you do?"

Tell yourself being in love with a guy that wants to be elsewhere is any kind of justification for staying. Tell yourself being afraid you'll never find anyone else is any kind of reason for staying in a relationship that's toxic and make posts with so little context that the rest of us don't have enough information to be of much use.

 

[KaraBulut]

ye ik but i love him scared i wont find another

Honestly, that's like owning a junk car that keeps breaking down but keeping it because you're afraid that you won't find another car.

It's fine if you want to stay in a relationship with someone who cheats but don't use the excuse that there's not someone better out there for you.

 

[pigface]

Walk away!!!
It isn't about that he wanted sex elsewhere, it's about the lie and deceit.
Being alone is better than being dependent on a dishonest fraud.

 

[frankifab]

Teach him a lesson and remove him from your life , block him from all social media , block his number , walk away , he will be taught a lesson

Challenge yourself and do it , better off alone , don't you have some self esteem and self respect , and PRIDE ?

LEAVE ASAP

 

[MusicMan321]

Being with someone who cheats on you shouldn't be with that person. Unless you just talk it over with him and maybe you can work it out if not let him go

 

[pigface]

Being with someone who cheats on you shouldn't be with that person. Unless you just talk it over with him and maybe you can work it out if not let him go

This was not a casual mistake. This was a carefully constructed and orchestrated act of deceit and betrayal. If someone is that treacherous they cannot be trusted. Ever again.
It can't be "worked out". Forgive, maybe, because it's good for your own mental health, but never give that person influence over you again.

 

[TX-Beau]

Well, we don't actually know what kind of mistake it was, willful or otherwise. Were they actually monogamous? Was it serial cheating? We don't know, the OP declined to provide context, and it looks like the OP isn't coming back so it's kinda moot anyway.

 

[Yuyyuu]

Well, we don't actually know what kind of mistake it was, willful or otherwise. Were they actually monogamous? Was it serial cheating? We don't know, the OP declined to provide context, and it looks like the OP isn't coming back so it's kinda moot anyway.

the hell u mean im not back like jeez

 

[TX-Beau]

the hell u mean im not back like jeez

How does that help anything? If you want advice, we need context and history. Just saying your BF cheated and you love him so is generic and the only advice we can give you will be generic since you haven't explained what is going on or how you got there.

Since you don't seem to be providing any of that we must assume that you no longer want help or you resolved the situation and then, yes, this thread is moot.